2006-07-11 22:19:43 · 13 answers · asked by soum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Great question but not difficult one to answer, First let him know the importance of it, and convince him about the importance of having a brother or sister as he is having a person like you to share his happiness and sorrowness, like that the child should also have a close person to share the same, everthing cannot be explained to you or your husband once they grow. This is what my wife explained me before , now she is 7th month pregnant, hope this little information can do. Rest in your actions.
2006-07-11 22:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by deekshitulu lakshmana dosibhatla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you gotta know what us men are thinking so... heads up and listen!!!
1. We wanna know that it wont be a financial burden (Do the math and PROOVE it to us, we DO NOT want to work harder or spend more time away from home to afford another child)
2. We wanna be sure it wont effect our life TOO much more. (Taking into consideration you already have one.)
3. We wanna be sure YOU can handle it. (If anything goes wrong)
4. We want to spend time with the children too, so can we both get part-time jobs and SHARE the responsibility and pleasure.
2006-07-11 22:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First know why does not he want a second child? then try to overcome the problem., If its matter of Money, responsibility i think you two need to discuss in a romantic manner.
Demanding, Fighting is not a Solution... discuss socially and come upwith a solution
best of luck...
2006-07-12 03:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by HARISH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to convince him.
if he wanted another baby he would have one with you.
maybe the time isnt right or he is thinking about the finacial side of things.
you should talk to him and ask him what he is feeling. if you have an 'accident' he'll know you did it deliberatly cos you wanted to have a baby. this cold end up with him walking out cos you decieved him and then you would be left all alone and pregnant with a kid.
i say talk to him. you need to sort this out. he might be thinking with his head where as you are thinking from the heart.
i want to have another child but we have talked about it a decided the time isnt right. we are gonna enjoy our son and in the future we might have another.
hope this helps
2006-07-11 23:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by jil_bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's continually conversing about how a lot relaxing he and his brother had, i'm making use of that tactic to communicate mine onto it. I requested him "are you able to imagine transforming into up without your brother to play with and spend time with? Then I grew to grow to be the tables because i'm the youngest out of four and the nearest age hollow is 4 years between me and my sister. So I talked to him about how lonely it replaced into for me because I had no individual to play with transforming into up because they were all a lot older than me. Our son will be 3 in 3 months so I informed him the age hollow is already stretching it. We continually suggested having 2 little ones yet he retains putting it off questioning we've a lot of time. i don't have a lot extra time because i do not want little ones after 35 and that is proper around the nook. I also informed him after the second one one, that's it, i'm getting my tubes tied because i do not want more advantageous than 2. Mine is in touch extra about affording it than having time to himself although. yet I already have each thing economic sensible deliberate out. Your husband not desiring a second toddler because he needs time to himself sounds fantastically selfish to me.
2016-11-01 21:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has to be "convinced", it's a bad idea. There's nothing worse than a parent who never wanted to be one. Why would you want anotheer child if it's not wanted by both it's parents?
2006-07-11 22:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by inthshade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL LET HIM KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS TO YOU AND DON;T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, TO TALK ABOUT IT IS THE BEST WAY TO WORK IT OUT YOU DON'T WANT TO FIGHT ABOUT THIS MATTER IF ANGER COMES KNOCKIN TAKE A BREAK AND TRY AGAIN LATTER GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-11 22:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Obey your husband. What if you have second child and he cheats on you because he is mad with you?
2006-07-11 22:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a break - take him to a romantic destination -
2006-07-11 22:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not. He either wants it or he does not. With a first still fresh in memory...
2006-07-11 22:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Puppy Zwolle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋