Ok, I already sorta asked this but I wanted
to elaborate on it.
I always thought this was a thing that guys do.
And I have never known a girl who has done it,
at least not as much as me, sometimes its several
times a week.I will be dreaming , and i will be
having some passionate love making with that person,
it feels good but I dont climax until they go down
on me, in fact itis that way in real
life for me too.
Sometimes its a guy sometimes its a girl...
go figure! its usually a man though, and its
always a DIFFERENTguy! That and I always feel
totally in love with that person..what does this mean?
I don't think i am a slut and I dont
sleep around. So again Any other girls have this?
What do men think about it? Would it bother you?
Do you think its a psychological thing? It happens
alot!!
2006-07-11 22:18:50 · 15 answers · asked by roman_surf_goddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I read that orgasming in your sleep and dreaming about sex and orgasms just means that you need sex. I have done it once, i was dreaming about this guy and i had an orgasm in my sleep, i didnt realize until morning what really happend. Id count it as a blessing! most girls have a hard time having an orgasm! Im not sure if u would call is psychological or not, see if it keeps happening throughout time, if it doesnt happen after a few months then it was just a phase.
2006-07-11 22:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend has these frequently. Although sometimes there is a sexual element in her dream, she says that she often just shares an intimate connection with the person in her dream (no one person in particular and they are often faceless but not in a scary way (just non-descript)).
She often describes them as a blissfulness rather than a sexual orgasm but that they feel very much alike. She does tend to wake shortly afterwards and feels refreshed and certainly satisfied.
You mentioned that you only orgasm through oral (both in dreams and real life). I'm inclined to think that sub-consciously you are concerned about these occurrences on their own and have to connect them to a sexual act for them to make sense. Nothing wrong in this and if it works for you then great. Either way though, enjoy them while they last.
2006-07-11 22:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well i think those guys are not doing it right not turning u on. obiviously going down on u turns u on and then u ***. so yeah its not u its the guy if he was good and made u super horny u wouldnt be able to fight it and u would release. so im not saying go find someone else but its not u girl. so yeah try thinking nasty and c if that helps. u need to get turned on and yes i think it would bother men if they cant make u *** but oh well they are getting some and eventually u do ***. so its all good. dont stress out. have fun girl
2006-07-11 22:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evn if its a psycho thing....still u r quite lucky to hav things done which othr woman so desperately wants to hav...It also shows tht ur actual sexual life is not satisfactory....U shud start searching some nice guy for urself who can make u do tht .....evn wen u r not in sleep.
2006-07-11 22:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bond007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, lucky girl. It happens to me a lot. I actually went to a doctor about it, not to stop it but find out why. I can tell you what is happening but not on here, to many eyes and ears. I am Angela on enyawe2000@yahoo.com. IM or e-mail me. A
2006-07-12 00:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by sapahaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's not a bad thing and very natural. may be your sexual feeling turns to high by this moment, for which these things are getting filled in dream. well may be this is a good time marriage and love (both together)! other wise, good sort of masterbating can make you cooler. thanks.
2006-07-11 22:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by joy_csharp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't happen to me...although I wish it did. :) I say enjoy it for what it is and don't think too much about it. When you're sleeping, you're in a state of unconsciousness so you have no control over what you're doing.
2006-07-11 22:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by UniqueIsWhoSheIs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "Lucky You!"......why waste all of that time just sleeping when you could be having orgasms......You Go Girl!
2006-07-11 22:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just not satisfied with your current sexual life and you're trying to get your satisfaction as you sleep. i used to have these dreams too but since i started dating my current boyfriend they kinda went away...
2006-07-11 22:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by ilya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky you. It used to happen to me when I was single but doesn't anymore. It is normal
2006-07-11 22:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋