I sent my bf who is far away an e-card. In the card, I said that after some troubles, I still love him and ask about his decision ( couple or not).
When he opens the card, it will notify me but i haven't got the notification yet !!! After the valid time of the card, if I still got no notification, what should I do then ???
What is he thinking now? What should I do ???
2006-07-11 22:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you weren't notified, it means he didn't open it. So he doesn't know what you wrote him. If the valid time of the card expires, send another one. Or, even better, talk to him on the phone or in person. That way, you'll know from his reactions if he still want to be with you or not and what's holding him down. Aether way, you will know and that's better than sitting in your home and wondering about it.
2006-07-11 22:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by bird in the sky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. If he doesn't open the ecard by the time it expires then it means he deleted it. But it's not that time yet. There could be alot of valid reasons why he hasn't read your card yet. But I don't think a ecard is the best way to tell him you love him and if you are a couple. Instead pick up the phone and talk to him. This will tell you more then anything you can do over email.
2006-07-12 05:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without the communication, it will stay the same as it is right now. Each person has the right to free will which means that we as the human race has the right to make choices. If he cannot accept what has happened and chooses not to communicate, and place effort, then either he's not come to terms with it and still needs time to recenter his thoughts, or it may take you to talk to him and say you are sorry for adding more preasure to him. If he doesn't contact with you..and its a no go, then it will be a learning lesson and it will be time to move on, and learn from the experience.
2006-07-12 05:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by cariadion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long it has really been. If the card is about to expire, then maybe you could try sending him a letter or an e-mail. If it's only been a couple of days, you might want to wait it out a little longer.
2006-07-12 14:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not sure about his feeling to you that make him difficult to make a decision...he is still confuse. Don't push him, give him a break....if he ready to built a serious relationship he will tell you his self without you asked.
But if you think it already takes so much time and there still so notifications..so please forget him...maybe you are not the one for him and you just waste your time for nothing
2006-07-12 05:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST WHAT R U PLAYING AT - THIS IS ONE OF YOUR PREVIOUS QUESTIONS BELOW!!!
"any ideas ....???
I sent email to my boy friend, proposed breaking up since his attitudes toward our relation bother me. In his reply, he appologized for things he has done and let me know the reasons. At the end of his email " but we can be friends OR ...? "
What does he mean by OR...?
What should I reply him ? "
just what are you playing at - this has been going on for a month!
Talk to the man not the answers people and be honest for a change.
2006-07-12 05:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Susie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would we know what he's thinking? He apparently doesn't check his email or he most likely would have opened it. If you haven't heard from him in a long time, move on.........
2006-07-12 07:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him!! Move on! I"m sure u won't have any problem finding another guy. Next!!
2006-07-12 05:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST CALL! and ask him. Thats the fastest way to find out.
2006-07-12 23:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that he's been at his computer? Maybe he hasn't been at the computer in the last few days.
2006-07-12 05:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋