I like this guy but dont know how to start up a conversation with him. Whats a good way to break the ice, confidently and kind of letting him know im into him?
2006-07-11 22:15:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he recently started workin in a shop that i go in all the time. im really shy tho, i went in today and couldent bring myself to talking to him...
2006-07-11 22:19:32 · update #1
ok, what city do you live in?
Men like sports, if you live in NY, you could casually smile and say.."it looks like Sheff might be back soon"
observe him, try to see what he likes..if you see him reading the newspaper or a book, just smile and say "what are you reading about"
Just be confident, how you feel inside reflects the way you appeal to people.
shy is who you are and that's fine, there's nothing wrong with that, but loosen up a little bit, and try to make conversation..and just keep smiling, smile shows confidence and how pretty you are:)
remember in this world, if you want something, you have to go get it yourself!, good luck:)..just be yourself!
I got it!--lol...next time you go in your favorite shop..kindly smile and ask him if there's anything new in the store..your a customer...he has to answer, and then take it from there:) be like, are you new here? because I come here a lot, and I have never seen you before.....get it? and then keep the conversation going. pretend you are talking to someone you've known for a while, so your not so nervous. I Hope you talk to him! let me know how it goes!
2006-07-11 22:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by SuperGirls™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both at the same time or in the same discussion? i don't suggest it... especially since both of you don't seem to know each other even as normal friends yet!
i suggest you can start talking to him by having a friend introduce the both of you. or if you have the courage and find yourself next to him in class or at the locker or at the bar, just make a funny comment, smile and watch his reaction. if he responds with a smile, just keep on talking!
letting him know you're into him can take place very naturally from then on. :)
2006-07-11 22:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by curi05ity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start as normal first .. then appear your feelings. And express your thoughts . Thats an easy way rather than impose directly.
Wishing all the best !!!!!
2006-07-11 22:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eb direct. most guys are just as shy as women. I know cause i am a guy. besides for a guy like me who doesn't know what to say after how you doing a woman approaching me would be a dream
2006-07-11 22:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First say a Hi to him and then ask what is his interest or what he likes, Thats it he will start tell u and you can also ask about anything silly like I have already seen you some where
2006-07-11 22:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by ravi g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you try and talk to him little things at first. like, if he's in your school, you ask him something about homework or something. if he responds and starts a conversation you can feel free and talk more to him. if he's interested he'll pick up on your interest.
2006-07-11 22:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by ilya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emm im maybe do what the girls do maybe joke with him and u start and ask him to tell a joke and when he tells one laugh and hit his leg but not hard that will tell him it does he like u?
2006-07-11 22:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him seriously i wish girls would do it. i hate always having to break the ice with girls. just be nice hell get the hint unless hes stupid if he is just ask him out
2006-07-11 22:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of way ... choose the one suitable for your situation ... like asking him about something you don't know .. or if he had seen someone you know ... or something like that
2006-07-11 22:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Luay14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donot worry! your talk itself will act as a saw
2006-07-11 22:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by vasan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋