This girl and I went out on three dates. We decided wed be better friends though. After a week I decided I didnt want to invest time into her because she is going to move in like 3 months. Well turns out my not talking to her made her want to talk to me 10x as much before. Now she comes over and we hang out and snuggle, talk for hours, THE WORKS. (no sex) . Anyway I like her alot and she is moving and she likes me...but I dont want to suffer heartache for I dont know how many years because like a fool I let myself get attached....WHAT DO I DO!!!! HELP!!
2006-07-11 22:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Brantly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the age suggestion by WoodAt. You didn't state how far she was moving? If it is only 2-3 hrs, that really isn't too far. If you are a bit older than 20, it might be worth it to continue dating. If a real connection is made, maybe you or she will make future plans of living in the same city. Even if nothing develops, why not just have some fun for 3 months? Heck, date some other women too and play the field. You have actually consumatted your situation so you really have an open option.
2006-07-12 01:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far you've been a douche about the sitch. Just cause a bf/gf relationship is out of the question doesn't mean you should alienate her. First thing set the boundaries, friends only for now. Second there is always the possibility that she may move back so keep it open that a relationship in the future may be possible under better circumstances. Finally just cause she is moving away doesn't mean you can't keep in touch and stay friends.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-11 22:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Steve B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you this from my own experience, the best relationship i ever had was when we both knew that it would come to an end because he was leaving the country for good. we both knew we had limited time... and you know what? we enjoyed every moment. Knowing when the relationship will end eliminates many insecurities, which makes the relationship fantastic!
So go for it! Enjoy! as long as you are aware that it is only this great because you KNOW it will end soon.
Good luck!
2006-07-11 22:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
provide your self sometime to only be positive you conceal each and each and every of the concept like in case you adult males are going to bypass 50/50 on each and everything then it truly is fantastic because it's going to be like having yet another roommate. the only problem is that new realtionships like yours needs better time to augment with out including that a lot closeness and if it doesn't workout habitual one in each and every of you should flow. it ought to interesting or it should be a disaster it is all remember on both of you. Are your personalities properly ideal or are you guy going to conflict now and again. properly how a lot he will make contained in the destiny ought to no longer remember yet reason human beings's challenge change each and each and every of the time and besides your relationship isn't about living together to create a existence together- you 2 are trying to save money so so that you could concentration on the job accessible. do not get way purely before yourselves. yet another problem will be that you adult males are going to be all in each and each and every others agencies like who is composed of visit and how a lot time you spend together and your relationship is going to bypass quite quick reason you gonna experience like you're married even in spite of the indisputable fact that you have not stated "I Do".
2016-12-01 03:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. Below 20, forget her. Above that and you are autonomous enough to go visit her and go on from there. Below the age of 20 no such thing as 'love' -- only 'fascination' and 'obsession'. It takes mental muscle to take on a REAL relationship and at ages below 20 no such thinkg yet as 'mental muscle'. If below 20 take all relationships light heartedly.
2006-07-11 22:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if u really like her, then you should spend as much time possible wit her a lot can happen in a quarter of a year (not nasty tho)
2006-07-11 22:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are funny. You should think b4 you decide. And not decide then think what
2006-07-11 22:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by apple pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-11 22:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by vinay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it while you can....
2006-07-11 22:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so
2006-07-11 22:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋