regarding she's never been in a love relationsip b4. If i admit my feeling to her, will she look down on me, hate me?
2006-07-11 22:05:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She won't hate you! Girls are flattered by boys admitting their feeling for them. but don't rush it. It's something you do later in the 'mating game'. But read on!
First, have a good chat with her about a subject she is interested in! Try to make her smile or laugh but gently, be witty, girls hate a clown!
While you talk to her, watch if she looks into your eyes. (More like looks into, then looks Down, looks again..it's like a little dance of the eylashes ;o) It's called flirting with the eyes. Good sign. But If she look straight at you and Away...she is not interested in you...although that may change later!
Girls also let you know they like you by gently touching you on your arm or leg for a moment. (It's a reflex, we don't do this on purpose until we are older)
If she has done the look into the eyes thing and the little touch, you can try to touch her shoulder for a moment, see how she reacts. if she doesn't move away, (again reflex) she likes you
But if she does, (and quickly) than there is no reason for you to tell her how you feel, you won't get the answer you want. In this case try to become her friend, maybe she falls for you later when she gets to know you better.
So the answer to "When a guy tells her he loves her? is when he is sure to get a positive response! Good Luck! Don't worry it's like a sport you get into it! ;o)
2006-07-11 22:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Archyd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she's fallen for you, she'll be over the moon to hear how you feel for her! If you're getting positive signals go ahead and tell her, I'm sure it'll put her on cloud 9 to hear those words!
If you don't feel she's fallen for you yet, hang fire until it seems the right time to tell her! She'll still be flattered and it's always lovely to be told that you're loved but if you don't feel the same there can be an awkward silence when you don't say it back!!
If you don't feel she's yet in love with you, she's probably just getting to that point, having never experienced it before she may not realise yet that she is in love?
If in doubt, tell her anyway. SHe's won't think any less of you and it may even help her realise her feelings towards you.
Good luck to you both x
2006-07-11 22:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can know that. You just go for it. If you have true feeling towards her there might be a chance she responds positively. I dont think she will hate you anyway.
In principle people like to be loved. But whether she will love you back, depends on her- you ll never get this answer from a forum.
2006-07-11 22:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that's something to worry about. don't just run up to her and say well guess what i love u have a nice day. u have to word it correctly and most girls just want to be wanted anyway so shell probably think its great. and she may be feeling the same way.
granted she may back off a little but if u have good communication then just sit down and talk about it no harm in that is there?
hope everything goes well for u mate
2006-07-11 22:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurry with telling her you love her. In the worst case, you will force her to say the same back without her meaning it. And that's no good to anyone.
Spend more time with her, get to know her even better. You will see if she has strong feelings for you or not. You don't need to 'risk' losing all by telling her you love her.
You can show her you love her without saying it just yet. Do it with your actions: be nice to her, treat her well, consider her feelings when you do things together. Just in general, treat her like a queen. Even if she wouldn't love you now, she will soon enough ;)
Good luck!
2006-07-11 22:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by RachelK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she will hate you provided you are being sincere in your feelings towards her. As she has not been in a love relationship before, hurting her will be very easy. Don't tell her you love her just because you want to have sex with her. I would advise that you show the love instead of speaking about it.
2006-07-11 22:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by b1ackeyze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how the girl felt for that guy. Only two general ways, either bad or good. Luckily I had the positive reply with the girl I love, I told her through webdate*com while we were chatting one time.
2006-07-11 22:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by edz1624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she won't she will probs be chuffed that you are able to share your feelings with her and hey she might feel the same, but if she doesn't don't worry about it, it takes some people longer to fall in love than others and does not mean it won't happen in the future.
2006-07-11 22:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by sugarbabe180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will be thrown aback and have a think about wether or not she feels the same about you. she will like what you have said it will amke her feels pecial but as it is her first love relationship she may not know how to react, she might just need some time to think, let her think dont hassle her, good luck though.
2006-07-11 22:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by jame_football 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating? It depends on if she believes you or if you sound like a player. I've heard that from players and it means nothing. I've also heard it from someone I fell deeply in love with and his words I love YOu meant sooo much to me!
2006-07-11 22:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋