will he stick to his word and we have been dating for 10 months
2006-07-11 21:58:24 · 21 answers · asked by gour-geous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems like you don't trust him all l can say is think long before you do something. love is all about trust
2006-07-11 22:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he'll probably stay since guys think about sex a lot and the more sex you're willing to give the more they'll want- and so they'll have to stay for the sex. However if he's a "player"-type then maybe having sex with virgins is his main thing and once it's over he moves on.
However, to answer an underlying question behind your question- Is it worth it to loose my virginity for this guy if I don't know if he'll stay- I don't know how serious we are and will be? Well, personally, I'm one of the rare young people who actually think it's really cool to stay a virgin and just hold out for the very very best partner who you want to stay with forever. My girlfriend and I are virgins and instead of that fact being a hampering to us, it actually has given us a lot of strength. So I would encourage anyone who wants to save it until more solid confirmation of the relationship occurs.
2006-07-11 22:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have some sort of commitment or are engaged then won't he eventually leave? or maybe you'll be the one to break up with him. I think it's inevitable, but i really don't know the dynamics of your relationship. But I'm not saying that losing your virginity would be the cause of him leaving, just that it takes a special relationship to make it last. And if you're worried that he might not keep his word, how can he be the one who is going to stay with you for always?
2006-07-11 22:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is to him...?
Do you get the feeling he loves you for yourself or is he just hanging in till he "gets you"?
Is sex a desperate issue for you both, or have you just kind of gotten there eventually?
Your first time should be a wonderful moment and a special gift to yourself and to whoever you want to share it with. It may be awkward and not go as expected so it may be during the next times that you really get the hang of things and get comfortable together.
Remember that if you are underage and he is much older than you he can get into trouble if you both can't wait long enough. Bla, bla, bla, I know, but think about it too.
2006-07-11 22:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by NotsoaNonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your question for a minute. If he said "yes" would you still consider having sex with him? I'm not saying he will leave. I am asking you why you think he would admit that he would leave. Plus, he doesn't know how he will react after the fact. He may think so, but we never know what we will do until we are faced with the situation.
2006-07-11 22:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way too young to be having sex with anyone. Stay a virgin until you get married. That is what God says and He is the only one who really knows what's best.
2006-07-11 22:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself for marriage and do not let your peers influence your decision. You will set yourself up for trouble. Look for a book that has been helpful to me, my sisters and friends. Sex and the Soul of a Woman by Paula Rinehart.
2006-07-11 22:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, you should not loose your virginity with a guy that doesn't give you that minimal security. So stay away!!! You are going to know when it is the time, no PRESSURE!!!
2006-07-11 22:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by El mundo es ancho y ajeno 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve been dating for 10 months, then probably yes.
2006-07-11 22:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by wd20x2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so, just do the telling in the time at the right place and with the right words!!!!! good luck...
2006-07-11 22:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by jox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋