Let me explain the situation first. My brother was lying to girls online and he asked me to help him because he is in Iraq right now. Just to log on as a persona he created. During the process I made some friends and kept lying to them. I got caught and my brother told me that he could get in big trouble and I lied again. Now during this one of the friendships has become more. This girl still thinks I have three brothers in which I do but its not the pictures of brothers that she has seen. She has forgiven me but not forgotten about how I lied about who I was. I am in love with this girl and I dont want to lose her but the pain of lying for my brother is killing me and I want to tell her the truth. Can someone tell me how without totalling losing my soulmate. I just feel like **** my brother has dogged out on me and I just want tomake things right with my girlfriend. How do I do this??? HELP
2006-07-11 21:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. If she cares for you she will understand and forgive, but do not continue to lie to cover it up. Be honest, be true, it is always the best, no matter what. If you don't tell her the truth, how can she ever believe in you..
John
2006-07-11 21:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE! Boy, you really did it this time, eh? Well, seriously, you lied, bottom line. What you need to do is let everyone know the truth, and hope you don't lose ALL your new friends. I hope you learn from this after all is said and done. Isn't is "funny" that a small little lie can explode into a nuke and take part of your life. But, if you stop the lies and tell the truth, you might be able to save this relationship. But, look man, you lied, what if someone did the very same thing to you and then you find out the person you liked wasn't anything whatsoever like what the person told you. Pi$$ ya off wouldn't it? so don't be too judgmental if someone tells you that they don't want to extend the friendship. Hope it all works out for you. Peace.
2006-07-11 21:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by jkcmr2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion will be difficult for you to accept. But if you do, then I am sure things will work out.
See, you have created this bitter pill, by lying etc.You created a persona, just for the thrill of it. Many people in the world do that.
Now you have to come clean abreast with the whole matter.
Swallow the bitter pill and get ready to openly confess to the girl that you got carried away, hence the persona factor.
If she is a really warm & intelligent person, who really loves you, then maybe, MAYBE, she will look forward to see your real self, and give love a clean restart.
Thats only if she loves you. A one sided love from you will get you nowhere. Try a fresh start. It should succeed.
If not, please terminate the affair immediately. From your computer & that hard disc which is in your brain.And promise yourself not to get in such a situation in future.
I feel sorry foor you.
Wish you luck.
2006-07-11 21:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, don't be too serious about someone you only meet online, they could be lying too. you're not the first to lie about who you are.
second just tell her the truth. explain that you chickened out on telling her everything the first time, and this time tell her absolutely everything you have lied about. if you both really love each other try to meet in a public place somewhere.
2006-07-11 21:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her all the truth and be honest quit lieing then if she didnt forgive its kool wait a while 1 week and then contact her again just dun wast more time its against u so hurry and tell her the whole truth!
2006-07-11 21:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like like u n deep s*** so just say dat ur brother sent the pic not u and he wuz doin it while u wuz sleepin dat should probably work
2006-07-11 21:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by atizzle44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth, and pray that she will understand.
2006-07-11 21:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?try proper grammar,punctuation,and no runon sentences!!!!!!!
2006-07-11 21:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know first how to use correct grammar
2006-07-11 21:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falsify
2006-07-11 21:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by little miss susie Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋