hey im a young 16 yr old girl. im attractive (i think!), smart, funny, and very ambitious but i have never been in a serious relationship and have been lookin for a boyfriend for some time. i want to experience a high school relationship before its too late. but everytime i think i find the right guy to date i can never figure out how to ask him out and it dies away. what makes you attracted to girls? im pretty shy with guys, so what would be something you would like to hear from a girl? should i be more agressive?
2006-07-11 21:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am an older person then high school. But what attracts me to a woman is the whole package. Looks help but its how easy is she to talk too? How judge mental is she? Can she hang out with me and the guys and not be to girlie but then be more a girl later. Can she put on a dress as well as jeans in other words. I don't like a girl that swears alot but she should know how. Put yourself out there. Talk to guys. Most girls have a guy friend that is just a friend. IS he really. Or is he the guy that you will kick yourself later for not dating. Look into that for a relationship. I have talked to woman that i went to school with and we sit there and say what the hell we should have dated we would have atleast enjoyed each other.. Hope this helps if not Sorry,
2006-07-11 21:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jedday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dont stress boys so much. Your still very young and you've got your whole life to have boyfreinds. You should worry more about getting into a good college so that you can get a high paying job one day and live the good life. Any relationships you bulid now in highschool really dont last. Dont get me wrong you will have a few close friends that you'll keep in touch once your older and out of college and highschool but the majority of your highschool friends and relationships will be forgotten. The success you have in your studies in high school will affect the rest of your life, and whether you get into a good college and have the high paying job. Still leave time to have fun though, and time for the boys. if you take my advice one day you'll know what i was talking about and who knows you might be an independant successful woman and have the relationship too.
2006-07-12 04:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by sublime7912003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy people tend to read people better than extroverts I noticed. Find a guy you like that share a lot of same interests as you and just throw it out there that you would like to do something sometime. Trust your instincts if you think it will work or not. What's the worst he could do, say No. Big deal. Don'tbe overly aggressive some people could get put off by that, or just find it plain pathetic.
2006-07-12 04:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u attractive as u say may be guys r shy to talk to u
if u like some one just make him ur friend and start getting to now him
and if he likes u he will ask u out in not more than a weeks time
2006-07-12 04:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depend on the guy u want 2 be as date. What he like agressive or simple girl! Just focus on u n show him what is ur feeling by ur body language. like looking at him, shiw him smile etc....
2006-07-12 04:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like a guy then just ask him if you wanna hang out sometime. then when your alone start smooching him and undressing him and he'll get the picture pretty fast.
2006-07-12 04:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi first, look available. Let them do the rest
2006-07-12 04:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by nova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a sexy smile the most, if you got crooked teeth, get braces.
2006-07-12 04:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need an older man to show you how immature teen guys are.
2006-07-12 04:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to send me a pic to darkknightoflegend@yahoo.co.uk
and ill give you my honest opinion
2006-07-12 04:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by MIKE?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋