hey im a young 16 yr old girl. im attractive (i think!), smart, funny, and very ambitious but i have never been in a serious relationship and have been lookin for a boyfriend for some time. i want to experience a high school relationship before its too late. but everytime i think i find the right guy to date i can never figure out how to ask him out and it dies away. what makes you attracted to girls. im pretty shy with guys, so what would be something you would like to hear from a girl? should i be more agressive?
2006-07-11 21:30:42 · 23 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They wanna hear stuff like: "Hey, I am naked and is anybody into a really easy girl?"
2006-07-11 21:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't want to have a relationship just to have one before high school is out.
Relationships are about committment to each other, mutual friendship and support, along with other things most of us adults out here won't mention to a young lady such as yourself.
You are young, if a relationship hasn't happened then you haven't met your mate. And you're very lucky not to have met some jerk -- there are a lot out there. In high school I had a female friend who went through this exact same thing, right about your age. She got so distraught about it that she went down to Florida specifically to have a "fling". The guy didn't just leave her -- he stole all her money too and left her high and dry the next morning. She was devastated by it, total change in personality.
So chill girl.
My first relationship was in college.
If you ask me now, it's better to wait until you're older and more mature.
The reason for this is that even the wisest and most intelligent, beautiful, and caring people still have break-ups -- look at celebrities. You handle it much better when you're older than when you're younger.
You also handle the love and respect within the relationship better than you do when you're younger.
Go have fun. Listen to music. Go out with your friends.
Don't worry about hooking up with someone -- let it just happen.
If you really are pretty, believe me Mother Nature will take care of you when she's good and ready.
2006-07-12 04:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by kevrob8008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A preety girl with preety smile and fun-lovin and most important smart.One more thing ,kind and friendly girls r everyone's favourities.and I wanna tell u that don't date a guy for the sake of an high-school experience or whatever.Date a guy only when u feel he is good n right,
2006-07-12 04:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Vio Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just keep being yourself, just remember though its OK to be smart and ambitious, but if what you want is just a HS fling with a jock there, you are going to have to pretend you are not so smart and ambitious, from what I remember, in HS guys liked the girls who were gaga over them not the smart intimidating ones.
2006-07-12 04:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your job as a girl is to let the guy know you're interested and let him make the first move. Smiling at him, eye contact, flirting, that kind of thing.
2006-07-12 04:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your worried about running out of time don't be.
if your lonely do something (be more agressive)
Why does the earth rotate around the sun? who really knows.
It just happens.
2006-07-12 04:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by bringerofinjustice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know u r around him, he will soon see u and start asking u questions or in class ask u for help, and remember a smile never hurts someone...
2006-07-12 04:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for boys whe time comes they ll come themselves. if u find some1 anyway like this way u r saying may be u ll have serious feelings and the boy leaves u 1 day ... u ll be hurt dear .so dont make problems to urself
2006-07-12 04:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Maka n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be more aggressive and aks guys out...it doenst hurt anything...plus alot of guys are just too chicken...and you said you are smart, attractive, and whatever else you said...so you are probably intimidating to guys...and whatever guy that sacks up enough balls to actually ask you on a date is probably going to be an asshole so your better finding a guy that you think is cute of some merit and asking him out your self.
2006-07-12 04:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best tip i can give you is to be yourself. Don't let anybody change your personality. And if you are always in a good mood that's great to attract people.
2006-07-12 04:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Yandel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋