How 2 make my mother happy?

Question

My mom grew up in poverty.When young,she worked hard 2 earn money so that her brothers and sisters can get proper education.When she married, it was not exactly a happy marriage but she held on for the sake of me & my brother. My father died 10 years back & she had to work again after a gap of 25 years.I became an engineer and my brother a doctor because of her hard work. i had a love marriage 3 years ago,not exactly against her wishes but she was not exactly happy with it either.Now, after a big fight, my wife has walked out of my home.and my wife has flatly refused to try to reconcile.
my mom, in her old age, has to witness all this. She is upset all day. I WANT 2 MAKE HER HAPPY, BRING SOME CHEER IN HER LIFE. HOW DO I DO THAT. PLEASE ADVICE, PLEASE HELP ME.

Answer 1

Hey there Archer...You asked this question 15 times so far ( i just checked your previous questions)...Is none of the answers that were already given good enough for you. Maybe show your mom your questions and she might realize how important she is to you

Answer 2

Big one.

Try and show her that YOU are happy and she'll be a little bit happier for you and for herself.

I imagine you've already started with the simple things like showing love to your mother and putting on a brave face and all that. Sorry about the break-up. When its firmly settled one way or another.

I imagine you already have, but remember to thank her for what she put up with to bring you up as a healthy normal person (which you must be if you are asking this question.)

If you can afford it, try to all go on a trip somewhere that you can get away from the situation and clear your heads. As mentioned above, little gifts and thoughts can be really effective and they feel good to give too.

Answer 3

I really feel for you, as I can somewhat relate to your situation. I know your mother must have had a very rough life, and it doesn't help to have her focus on it. What I would try to do is visit her as often as possible. It is obvious the she loves you and your brother very much. She has sacrificed a lot from what you said. Keep her close to you and do little things to make her happy. Take her out to a park, the beach, or even just watch a movie with her. Little gifts can be nice too. I hope that I helped a little. I know it's hard seeing your parents not happy. That is a very difficult thing for me to see.

Answer 4

Tell your mom that you love her and that you do not wish for her to be unhappy. explain that as an adult you have made choices that she may not have agreed with but it was not because you didn't love but because you had to follow your heart.maybe it was not the right choice but you had to learn on your own. let her know that grief is not what you want to bring her.let her know that you would like to make live better for the both of you..a happy beginning.we are but human and we make mistakes....