Okay See IM NOT CHEATING ON MY BOYFRIEND but he always thinks i am and i cant stand it! i just want to no wats the best way to convince him that im not!
2006-07-11 20:38:19 · 16 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and ive been with him for a year and some times he does trust me and some times he doesnt
2006-07-11 20:42:33 · update #1
AND HE DOESNT THINK IM A WHORE HE IS JUST PARANOID!
2006-07-11 20:43:24 · update #2
and i no for a fact that he is not cheating on me.... and just sometimes he gets insecure and thinks i am he doesnt BLAME me he just thinks it SOMETIMES
2006-07-11 20:47:35 · update #3
Never use anger in defense of yourself ... Although you may be angry at his inquisitions, stay calm, and give him no reason to express counter-anger ... then, discuss things in the way only you know best ... hold his hand ... and if you love him, remind him so ... don't try to prove your innocence with facts (about where you were @ 2 a.m. etc.) ... Strive to prove your innocence with gentle gestures and a reassuring monologue of what he means to you ...
2006-07-11 20:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by blazingarrow74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be deeply offended by this. Do not beg for forgiveness and do not try to reassure him. He is the one who needs to apologize to you. I'm getting the impression that maybe he wants to break up but is too much of a coward to just say it. He may be hoping that if he's enough of a jerk that you will leave him first.
2016-03-27 02:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As it has come to the stage of convincing him on this matter, he is not qualified to be a friend at all. Just forget him and carry on as if nothing happened. Life has so many wonders in storage for you. CM.
2006-07-11 20:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. ask him what leads him to believe your cheating then you can use that to make him believe you .
like prove to him some how that everything that leads him to believe your cheating is actually not true and be totally honest no lieing cuz it will leave you in a deeper hole. well good luck convincing him your not cheating.
2006-07-11 20:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what did you do in order for him to believe that? And if you haven't done something to him, then he's probably the one cheating on you! Guys usually tend to blame girls for something when really they are the ones doing something behind our backs!
2006-07-11 20:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really cant,he either trust you or doesnt.I say if he dont get someone else that will trust you.Maybe he is the one cheating on you.Its like that sometimes..they do the damage so they blame you..or try and accuse you
2006-07-11 20:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by lorraine u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really prove a negative. Just continue to be faithful and he'll understand eventually. Unless he's an insecure jerk...then he won't.
2006-07-11 20:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well well well they say if you accuse your mate of cheating then you're the one cheating, but I dont know what it is. Maybe he like to see you angry because you are so cute.
2006-07-11 20:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust, hmmmm he doesnt trust you...Find a new boyfriend you'll never convince this guy...
2006-07-11 20:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is retarted and needs to grow up! Tell him your not a whore and you dont do that kind of thing tell him that if he cant trust you then it needs to be over!
2006-07-11 20:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋