any time I talk to my bf it is because i call or text him.Is he trying to tell me something without saying it,he has invited me over to his house once for dinner and to watch fireworks on the 4th of july with his family.We've been going out for one month,am I reading too much into.When we go out we each pay for ourselves even though men usually pay after the first date when they have a girlfriend.Plus i always plan where we're going,etc.He has only ever text message me first,he has never once called.
2006-07-11 20:16:34 · 5 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me he is experienced.He has had several girlfriends before me and has dated many of my friends.But these girls were almost 2 years ago and all the different girls he was with I didn't know them then or him.Our friends joke about wwhat a womanizer he is (It is not tryue though,trust me ).
2006-07-11 20:24:31 · update #1
Yep, he's taking you for granted. Guys'll do this just to see how much they can get away with. Want it to stop? Call him on it. Sit him down face to face, tell him what you've noticed, and tell him it's gotta stop.
Another possibility is that maybe you just beat him to the punch. Are you phone happy? He might feel you call too much if he's texting you back all the time. Or maybe he wants you to text him more than call.
Meeting his family at a holiday is a good sign. He wouldn't want you anywhere near his family if he wasn't into you.
And the guy pays for the first date, possibly the second, but once you hit coupledom, it's dutch, baby, unless it's a special occasion or one of you is completely broke. Don't be the kind of girl who always expects the guy to foot the bill.
Just have a calm talk with him, and get it cleared up.
2006-07-11 20:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just trying to play it cool and not show how he really feels. However, if I find a girl I'm interested in I do call, I do text, I do pay and plan where we go although I do ask her if she has any other ideas to get her input. If you are being to clingy he might be backing off. Try not calling of texting him for a couple of days and see what happens.
2006-07-12 03:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone else dude does seem interested in you sorry
2006-07-12 03:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't into talking like women are, don't worry so much.
2006-07-12 03:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is not too experienced in this field
2006-07-12 03:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋