I'm a guy and am really attracted to my best friends ex. girlfriend. Actually, they had a "friends with benifits" thing going on. I'd like to ask her out...with hopes of more than just a roll in the hay. Should I??
2006-07-11 20:12:33 · 16 answers · asked by luv2bluvd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One I would say, shes not good enough for you. Why?! If shes the kind of girl who will do friends with benefits.. shes a slut. She is the kinda of girl who would cheat in an instant. Your wanting more out of a realationship. Dont go for her. She may be gourgous and smart etc. but it isnt worth it. Get over her move on and save your friend ship with your buddy. .. Oh and X's are X's for reasons
2006-07-11 20:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by blondeshorty85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems harmless but put yourself in HIS shoes. How would YOU feel seeing YOUR best friend dating YOUR EX?
Especially if things ended on a sour note. That means you would have to look at and interact with her to a certain extent. How would you feel? Think about it. Are you willing to risk your friendship for a dating gamble?
2006-07-11 20:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not (at least not without the permission of your best friend) Talk to your best friend, see how he feels about it. And then don't go out with her seriously for a while. Just talk to her. See how he reacts. If he reacts negatively to you and his ex being friends then he wouldn't be alright with you dating.
2006-07-11 20:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend. If they were just ''friends with benifits'' he shouldn't have a problem with it. Be as honest as possible... let him know you think she is pretty cool and you'd like to hook up with her. Don't make it sound to serious, because beleive it or not, he may be jealous... not that you like his ex.... but that you might spend more time with her than with him... ya know. guys get jealous like that too. Anyway... good luck.
2006-07-11 20:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you best friend first because thats the way to do things. If you dont and he see you two together, I dont think he would like it and besides its plenty more women out there. If she is a real woman she would't date you anyway.
2006-07-11 20:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT HARD TO SAY BECAUSE WHAT IF SHE HAD FELLING FOR YOUR FRIEND.OR WHAT IF HE HAD FEELINGS FOR HER. MAYBE IF I KNEW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP THEY HAD, ID BE ABLE TO TELLYOU. GRANTED THAT IT WAS BASED ON "FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS", IM SURE THEY HAD FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER. IT ALSO DEPENDS ON HOW LONG THIER RELATIONSHIP WAS. WAS THE "FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS" BECOSE THEY WERE SEEING OTHER POPLE? IF SO WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH SOME ONE WHO MAY NOT BE FAITHFULL OR GO BEHIND YOUR BACK AND HAVE A "FRIENDS WIHT BENIFITS" MOMENT WIHT YOUR FRIEND. I WISH I COULD GIVE YOU A SIMPLE YES, AND WHY OR NO,AND WHY
2006-07-11 20:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by B*Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. It's a bad idea to date friends and friend's x. There's plenty of people out there. Simplify your life by not getting yourself wound up in drama. It would make your relationship with your friend very awkward if you dated his xgf.
2006-07-11 20:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by janie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't there enough people in the world who haven't dated you BEST friend?
Sorry it;s rude to answerer a question with a question. NO.
2006-07-11 20:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you had a dream about going out with his ex and ask how he would feel if you really did go out.Say the dream has been bugging you for a week or so and you had to get his opinion.
2006-07-11 20:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats risky territory if u feel the love relationship is more important than friendship then go for it
2006-07-11 20:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by dat3rdcoast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋