Have u seen your ex again after break-up? What does it like? How u met and how u face each other?

Question

My story was like this: ON his bday, i brought along my new bf and never told him about it. At first he thought i was coming alone and he looked very hopeful, but then when i introduced my bf to him, he was very embarrassed. It was quite awkward. Then in the afternoon he just simply disappeared without a goodbye

Answer 1

I have twice! The first time was like fire and the second was like a deep hole. put that together and it was like hell. She was comimg in the super market with that deserted look on her face as I was walking out. When she saw me she quickly grabbed her new boyfriends arm and kissed him on the cheek as if he had just hit the lottery or something. He didn't catch on right away because he was busy looking at the young lady ahead of me that just passed him. By this time we were face to face, she spoke with this phony wide grin and super proper voice. HI LARY! (its pronounced Larry) I want to introduce you to Kevin, He's a licensed electrician and hes cooking me diner tonight and.......I cut her off by extending hand to Kevin. I said "Hey Kevin, I'm Larry - a licensed driver and I'm cooking my diner tonight also. As I walked away I whispered to my ex "pick your chin up off the ground"

Answer 2

Yes I have seen an ex after a break up. It depends on how you feel about them and how things ended. For me I had ended yet I still felt awkward when I ran into at the mall. I didn't even stop to say hi . I just smiled and waived. If he would have stopped me I would have stopped to talk as friends but I have no idea what I would have said. If you are still in love with him it will hurt but just remember the are ex's for a reason and eventually you do heal honest!!

Answer 3

Yes... which one is the question. There's 2 or 3 that it was difficult. One asked me to go to his graduation ( should have known better not to go I hate Graduations to begin with) this was 3 years later I think,
I was waiting / sitting in the ceremony area with all the friends and family of the soon to be grads, before the graduates were suppose to come out,

he approached me smiling and said

hi, don't I know you,
I said hi I think so...

then what rings in my ears till this day which quickly broke the long lost love look, and I feel so stupid for saying it, I said

where's your mother?,

"where's your mother?!!" what an idiot!
I'm sure I said it because I didn't know what to say and the tension was high, but it was not the result I wanted.

Answer 4

Alot of my ex's are friendly with me. And my current honey. I'm also friends with their wives. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean we gotta treat each other like dirt. If the break-up was relatively clean, it can be done better.

It isn't always easy either, but it's worth it.

Unless the ex was abusing you or went completely psycho and boiled your rabbit, being at least nice to your ex is in your best interest. Being a bad break-up can discourage guys to date you--word DOES get around.

Answer 5

i guess it depends on how the breakup happened...on good terms or bad terms??

for me, it was a little bit awkward yet comforting at the same time. feelings were still there, and even though i was hurt, it was ironically good to see him, knowing that he was hurting too... that he was experiencing similar feelings as me

it was a good chance to talk about the breakup again, after it sat on out chests for a while.

i think that if it's possible, to try to work towards a friendship.

goodluck

Answer 6

I married my first love it's been a long time ago but we were divorced a year and a half after we married because he got too posessive and liked to drink and hit me.......I saw him again 20 yrs later and although he had stopped drinking and he had asked me to remarry him , I couldn't because although he was my first love and I will always have a place for him in my heart, my heart belonged to another who I eventually married and I thank god for him every day

Answer 7

It is hard, it leaves you feeling very confused & emotional, and very upset. It is not a great idea to meet up with your ex, but if you have to, take a friend so u don't fall into any emotional traps.

Answer 8

it's kind of heartbreaking lor... especially when she's wif her bf... however if u loves someone u must learn to let go n so long she's happy u should b happy 2... i miss my ex so much n it's been half a year since she called yesterday... if i'll bump onto her, i'll still tok to her as a close frez... tt should b e way... not by pretending not to known 1 another... UNDERSTAND le ma...

Answer 9

I'll ignore your atrocious grammar and spare you the sarcasm by answering this question honestly.

me n mah ex seed each oth evryday i wen to skool wit her n den i dated her best frend n we been goin out for six monthjs it does like whe i see mah x we kool somtimes but she dumped me but i ovah it n my gf now an mah ex r straight again

Hope that provided some insight.

Answer 10

yeah i did! I saw my ex last december, and we broke up last year. So its like not seeing and talking to him for like 6 mos. At first i feel so awkward, but he approached me first and he was trying to be nice to me. And we finally taled a little.. But its like a friendly talk. So, now we're friends. ;)