This girl i have been having sex with alot is starting to bring emotional bull$hit to the table. She started to complain how i never get her flowers or gifts and i tried to explain that since i do not carry the title of boyfriend, i am not obligated to care about her crap or take her out to eat. I am somewhat hurt that she would even try to bug me with it. isnt there some kind of unspoken code that says i dont have to care about her. I would hate to lose the sex and clean house but i dont have it in me to buy her stuff..
2006-07-11 19:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put it this way: would you change the oil or wash a rental car?
2006-07-11 19:35:00 · update #1
maybe she doesn't know what that means, try explaining it to her...
2006-07-11 19:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by pshh =] 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she does know what friends with benefits means right no emotional attactchment but from experiance female tend to develope feelings for this guy u don't have to get her anything just remind her that u don't care for her like that maybe she will get the hint and u won't lose a thing **** i done this for three yrs loved him to death but knew it was no more than sex maybe u just found the wrong girl to do this with she may not be open-minded about this kind of thing
2006-07-12 02:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by abbykgizmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee I can't possibly think of why she thinks that you care about her. You are only doing the most intimate act two people can do with each other on a regular basis. It's guys like you that give caring guys like me a bad name.
2006-07-12 02:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang on the realzz in friend with benefits there is always going to be sum kind of feeling ..like hers at first she was probably like to just do stuff but it gets old its natural for 1 of the people to actaully start to take the releationship differntly..
truthfully there is nutten u really do but go wit her or just sit her down and tell wuts the problem aand then move on... ???
2006-07-12 02:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by CHOOZEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't know she's being used. some girls give it up to wheel you in thinking you like them for them. not necessarily for sex. maybe you should be upfront and just tell her the truth (assuming she doesn't already know it). why buy the cow when the milk is free?? i see your point but i also think the whole thing is just a little sad. she seems naive.....
2006-07-12 02:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care about her, you need to end your relationship with her, and especially stop using her to fulfill your sexual needs. If you do care about her, then make a commitment.
2006-07-12 02:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on Dude
the term is 'Friend' with benefit
not shag for free
be a friend to her, you owe her that, or are you too selfish and only think of yourself, this is not a relationship, it is 'FRIENDS with BENEFITS'
2006-07-12 02:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know its guys like you that give good guys a bad name!!!!! You should stop seeing the girl so she can get her a REAL MAN!!!
What a LOOSERRRRRRRRRRR
2006-07-12 02:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by joek342003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE SUCH A BASTARD, I MEAN, THAT GIRL, SHE IS SATISFYING YOU AND YOU CANT EVEN BUY SOMETHING NICE FOR HER??? HOW CRUEL ARE YOU HUH????!!!! YOU MAKE ME SICK, HOW COME YOU WANT EVERYTHING YOUR WAY BUT YOU WONT PLEASE HER HUH!!!??? WHEN SHE IS IN YOUR BED, SHE DOES BUG YOU, BUT WHEN SHE ASKS FOR FLOWERS SHE DOES? GET A LIFE YOU SILLY, WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TO TREAT GIRLS LIKE THIS HUH??!!! SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-12 02:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋