I wouldnt say that I constantly get looks from black women but it does happen more times then I care to count. Do black women really have a problem with white women with black men? If so...seriously...WHY????
2006-07-11 19:14:52 · 11 answers · asked by skattered0077 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
I should mention that this only happens in the United States and not in Australia or anywhere else that we have been...
2006-07-11 19:22:04 · update #1
yes...we/he has money, but he didnt when i met him...
also, i sure am not ugly!
2006-07-11 19:23:30 · update #2
i wouldnt exactly call my man a bum....he works hard...makes good money....i dont have to work...so i wouldnt exactly say im taking care of him, would you????
2006-07-11 19:31:23 · update #3
Some Black women feel that these women are taking THEIR men. When some (some, not all) black women see black men with white women (or any other race other than black) they feel that black men are betraying them in a way. Have u ever heard some black women say, "All the successful black men marry white women?". I hear this pretty often. They (black women) feel that white women are 'taking' or 'stealing' black men away from them. I personally think its just fine to marry (or date) interracially :) Infact, I'd rather date interracially! However, there are still many people who frown upon it. But to answer your question, black women feel that these white women are simply stealing these men away from them.
...i think it's all Bogus. I mean, u should be able to date/marry whoever u want...as long as he treats u right! No one should care about race. Don't let these, stares/frowns bother u. Just continue to embrace ur relationship instead :)
2006-07-11 19:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of Halloween 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Being a white man with a black woman it doesnt really work that way for me but interestingly enough alot of white guys hate on black guys who have white women too. I guess the general consensus must be that white guys can have any race of women but black guys have to stick to black girls. Kind of funny how that works... I dont hold those views, just being an observant cynic.
2006-07-11 19:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by lukeforthemoney 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Some black woman have problems with it don't worry about it girl. If that black man is making you happy bump them. There so wrapped up in your business because your happy and thier not. It wouldn't matter what race that guy was your gonna get looks from the women of that race anyways. ps am a black female who is dating a white guy and we're very happy . So tell them to shove it
2006-07-11 19:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by silly1 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Girl....its those Nobody type Black woman that care
If you really look hard..the white woman black men relationships
are always where the white woman is taking care of the Black man
I say whatever!
Just another bum we dont have to worry about
2006-07-11 19:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
im a black women and from experience it intimadates some of us but i dont care about stuff like that as long as the couple is happy it shoudnt matter. i dated a white boy and noone mad faces or comments. black women have a problem with white women dating a black man is because white women already have everything!
2006-07-11 19:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Ahhh...I hate to say it but yes. I am a white woman & I have a lot of black friends...men & women. I go out to eat with a couple of these men. I told one of them something that had happened to me when I asked a black man his name & his wife, also black, was standing there. Boy, did she get huffy. My friend said, 'she thought you were after her husband...they don't like white women with a black man because they think white women are taking their men from them.' I told him I had already picked up on that fact...he just confirmed it.
Not that it makes a darn bit of difference...but we're both highly educated people. People can think what they want. People are people...color, tint of skin makes no difference. We are all human beings created by a God who does not see color. He sees people.
2006-07-11 19:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
It depends on the Black man's status, is he Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, Taye Diggs, Russel Simmons and so forth.
But seriously, I just look because usually she isnt very pretty and I wonder why he got with her in the first place.
Most women like me in their 20's dont care,it's the generations before us that have a problem with it.
I dont have a problem with interacial dating or marriage.
But Black men get messed over by them when the man is rich,
like Russel Simmons and his wife are getting a divorce.
2006-07-11 19:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by sincerely, see me 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I don't hate it. Black men can date whoever they want,I could care less.
2006-07-14 07:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lycrester 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
who wouldn't? if i was a black woman i would hate to see black men with other races..
2006-07-11 19:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by incognito 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
SORRY that has happened to you. I WISH you all the best.Do pray 4 black women ok?
2006-07-11 19:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋