waiting to sleep with someone that is.
2006-07-11 18:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oops. too late.
i tried to wait and i had good intentions to wait....but being 18 and in college.....it just happened and i kinda regretted it, but i was smart, safe and responsible (well maybe not smart) about it and i dont regret it anymore. it doesn't have to be a huge, earth-shattering moment, but it shouldn't be careless and irresponsible either. it should be in a deep, committed relationship between two people who love each other, but they don't necessarily have to be married. there's a lot you can learn about yourself once you have sex, and you should really know about that side of yourself before you get married.
just my two cents!
cheers
2006-07-11 19:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by zeev_84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord....If I had it to do all over again, maybe. I always thought (and still do, to some extent) that all I ever wanted was one strong, ever lasting family. Never thought I was a candidate for divorce - now I am sharing two beautiful baby boys with an ex-wife. Hey, what can I say...she was beautiful, always said the right things, seemed like she really wanted to be a mother, blah blah!!! Anyway, she wasn't my "first;" rather, she was the best - in a skewed perception. Perhaps, if I had waited, my vision would have been a little clearer or maybe I'm just clairvoyant (through hindsight)?
2006-07-12 02:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by mainefederalists 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every catholic girls do. its a tradition of morality the church forbids pre-marital sex thats why girls mostly in catholic nation would stay virgin before getting married and mostly catholic guys would want their girlfriend to be a virgin before getting married and girls who have do it before getting married face shameless persecution from the family of the guy cause its a tradition for girls to remain innocent and pure before getting married thats the reason why the catholic church would choose white as wedding dress cause its symbolise virginity i know cause i am a catholic. cause u white people think virginity is not important and those who are virgin is a loser cause all of u are ******* immoral people dont you know that mostly nice guys would prefer girls who are virgin than sluts its every guy dream to marry the most perfect girl in the world and has all the characteristic of a woman,soft and feminine, modest,graceful , affectionate,timid, pleasure loving is makes a woman so beautiful and all of these characteristic are non- to a ******* white girls in america. would you know that a guy would be proud to introduce to there mother the girl who they chosen to be their wife has this qualities but if the girl is a ******* sslut and have slept with different men your mom would actually kill you if u bring home a ******* sslut . so virginity is the most highly characteristic of being a woman, not a ******* sslut like all the girls in america thank you
2006-07-12 02:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question, without the addendum, is more interesting. I believe people should wait to get married...at least until one or the other expires.
2006-07-12 02:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all about waiting until marriage. I know it will be worth the wait!
2006-07-12 02:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe in that, but also depends on sleeping with someone.
Sleeping together with clothes on, or sleeping together after just having sex?
2006-07-12 02:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can say they believe in it, but the reality is difference. The truth is, can you wait that long?
2006-07-12 02:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by muah12000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do totally. I think it really says alot about the person you might spend the rest of your life with.plus, whats left to explore and discover about eachother?understand?
2006-07-12 02:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by norma g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, could not wait in my day. sex and drugs were all around us.
2006-07-12 02:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me. (wink wink) everyone needs to explore.
2006-07-12 02:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋