My boyfriend likes to watch porn while he's on the phone with me sometimes. I dont like it very much.
2006-07-11 17:55:33 · 14 answers · asked by MeNGarrett4Ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
First of all, if your boyfriend likes to watch porn, let him do it....BUT ON HIS OWN FREE TIME, (unless that bothers you.) Otherwise, disapproving of that and telling him that he can no longer ever watch it, on the phone or not, will complicate the relationship and put stress on the two of you.
Tell him u simply do not like the fact that he watches porn while you two are trying to have a conversation, especially over the phone. See what he does frome there, if he continues it, "GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE". (maybe even stop sex, as to where he is forced to approve of your problem.) But, if he approves of your wishes and respects you, than honey, you've got one REARE man there; so hold on to him tight. On the other hand, if he continues to do it, he is testing you, so you should show him that you will do what it takes to get your point across, and can do better than him; eventhough you 'love' him.
-good luck- ( *Helping in NJ*)
2006-07-11 18:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by ange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl out here may tell you all guys watch porn- but I know a bunch that dont! Talk to him, express ur concern, and let him know it bothers you, and see where it goes from there.
Good luck!
2006-07-11 17:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys watch porn. dont stress cos it nothing bad. its not like he is cheating on you. the guys that have to hide that they do, they are the one to worry bout. however tell him that you dont like it when your on the phone with him.
2006-07-11 18:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you is uncomfortable with him watching porn while on the phone with you. he should respect you and don't do it no more
2006-07-11 18:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't like him disrespect you with that stuff
while he talking to you, it rude, and very distasteful behavior
to say the least. if he doesn't understand how you feel it time
to look elsewhere. respect is the most important thing in a
relationship.
2006-07-11 18:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont like it and if he dont listen hello we have the best tool of all NOT SEX . cut him off till he listens to your feelings and respects them . he wont last long without it lol
2006-07-11 17:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him him u dont like it it makes u uncomfortable and uneased and if he continues then u should tell him its disrespectful and inconsiderate of you and your feelings
2006-07-11 17:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to call someone else while he's doing that - someone who likes it.
2006-07-11 17:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont like that
2006-07-11 18:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont like it
2006-07-11 17:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋