I still love him and I always will. He's my first college love... first experience in relationship and I lost my virginity to him. I just turned 20 and I am ready to move on and let go but how do that with no closure? What do I do?
2006-07-11 17:34:15 · 7 answers · asked by Gface15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you feel because I too never had closure on a relationship that ended. He just stopped calling and never gave me an explanation. It seemed all good and one day it just ended. I still love him and am trying to move on. Without any closure, I think of him each and every day. I wonder why or where our relationship went wrong. I've tried to talk to him and even wrote him a letter, but to no avail. I just have to accept the fact that it's over between us. I know he has moved on and I need to do the same. I know it will be really hard, but you need to move on even without closure. All I can say is to give yourself time to grieve and in time your heart will start to heal. Best of luck to you and take care!
2006-07-18 13:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things in life have no closure. So what if you have got a closure to the relationship? As long as you still love him, a closure will not make you feel any better than what you are feeling now. You have to learn to let go. Good Luck
2006-07-12 00:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is no closure and good bye does not mean forever. However, you have to move on because I promise he will. Remember that loving him gave you a lot of joy. Leave it with dignity and class both physically and emotionally. There are a lot of relationships to come in your life. Get out there and enjoy life. Good luck!
2006-07-12 00:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you always will, but go talk with him in person, not on the phone, let him know that you have move on with your life and maybe keep a freindship going. Just let him know that your ready to go on with your life, And let him know how you really feel.
2006-07-12 00:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by cuteangelbreeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write them a lovely letter,
take some time to think about what you would like to say then re-write the letter in a very plesant manner.remind him of all the moments and pleasures you 've grown to love because of him.
Good Luck, Hope you don't stay so broken hearted
2006-07-12 00:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by curious rudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know extactly what you mean
I know I need to talk with them, even over the phone to do it.
HOWEVER
be in the right state of mind. Give it a few weeks, be calm. Speak clearly and do what you need to do to rest your mind and be able to move on
2006-07-12 00:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT QUESTION ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER THAT ONE. CLOSURE IS DIFFENT FOR EVERYONE. IT SOMETHING
THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO DO FOR YOURSELF.BUT JUST
LIKE EVERYTHING IT WLL GET BETTER WITH TIME. START
GOING OUT WITH FRIENDS.. MEETING NEW PEOPLE.ETC
JUST TAKE IT SLOW.
2006-07-12 00:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋