2006-07-11 17:31:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if she finds out you're falling in love with someone else... that's gonna hurt, a lot.
If it's with someone that you know and are friends with/have contact with (not necessarily physical contact), and you feel stronger about this other girl than you do your girlfriend, you have to decide who you want to be with. Whether you do or don't truly love you girlfriend though, you really have to think about what you want to do.
It's just some advice, but the end choice is going to be in your hands. Just take whatever advice people give you on here, and use that to help, don't make your decision because of what people tell you to do.
2006-07-11 17:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by beachbum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no easy way. Its like jumping into a cold Pool. Its going to be tough at first but you gotta get it over with. Your hurting yourself and your soon to be EX more by staying to keep from hurting feelings. Do it as nice as you can and be honest.
2006-07-11 17:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by dager35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, what you do is ENTIRELY UP TO YOU. What's that phrase I'm looking for: "Been there, done that." I have sometimes gone this way, sometimes that way. Either way has its costs as well as its benefits. Weigh them and decide. Oh, and a little thought here: Don't let your "little head" do the thinking for your "big head", if you know what I mean. God Bless you.
2006-07-11 17:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you dont want to hurt her, hummmmmm...... if you would have left the other girl alone you wouldnt have started falling in love with some one else. hummmmmm...... you know there are really men who are true, then their are the dogs that cant leave other girls alone and you fall under the dogs.......
you owe it to your gal friend to be honest with her, and she will thur you to the street bubba
2006-07-11 17:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up your girl. cuz its totally unfair to her. cuz she still thinks your in love with her...your pretty much lying to her ( cuz u love this other girl). and there is no way to avoid hurting her. sh*t, its gunna hurt u too. especially seeing her be hurt. its gunna hurt u to cuz your the one doing it to her. but the faster u get it over with..the faster she can begin to heal.
-and dont expect anything glorius after ending it ethier..cuz wat if the chick yur leaving yur girl 4...ends up leaving u. so..i predict that this whole thing will be kind of a long process, but good luck.
2006-07-11 17:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love her just tell her coz no matter what you do you will still hurt her, you love somebody else. do it for your own good .
2006-07-11 17:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by hamidoabdul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, break things off with ur gf. the longer u 2 r together, the deeper she falls in love with you. to cause her the less pain possible, break things off asap.
2006-07-11 17:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋