im very happy with my b/f who is only 25 but i was just curious why only younger guys have asked me out since my divorce i have been around older or the same age but only younger guys have the nerve i guess. just curious
2006-07-11 17:30:57 · 28 answers · asked by stacey s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps it's part of you. I'm assuming that the guy you divorced is older than you, or you wouldn't be asking this.
Some guys (and gals for that matter) just seem to be born with "old souls"...they are attracted to older people of the opposite sex, and it is in turn reciprocated because they sense this. I know this to be the case because it has been a pattern in my life.
Chances are they are truly interested. Guys that are attracted to older women aren't looking for a mommy, they are looking for someone who has experienced life and do not need to be pretensious about who they are, what they want, and what they like.
As you say, you were "just curious"...not annoyed, frustrated, etc. So chances are you have it in you to be with a younger man.
2006-07-11 17:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You look married.
The older men are taken.
They see all the baggage at your feet.
Single men that age are playing the younger field. Why not?
You don't dress sexy enough.
Your body language is conditioned from marriage to reject men and the younger men don't read the signals well enough yet.
Older men would rather break in a new filly.
Younger men know a used pair of shoes are broken in.
There are less younger women available.
Older women are more down to earth.
Young women are complicated.
Young women are looking for serious relationships and commitments.
Young men are way more hornier and motivated.
You have that I'm looking for a husband attitude.
You have children, men know.
A young man will put up with much more to get laid by next year.
2006-07-12 00:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably very attractive. Most guys are intimidated by beauty. As guys get older, their confidence dwindles with the younger crowd and stick to their age group. It also depends on where you socialize, and who you hang out with. But, don't be too curious, you do have a bf.
2006-07-12 00:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Gil Da Thrill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure im 32 now and have been widowed since i was 29 and when i started dating again most of the guys were younger. i absolutely refused to go out with the 18 and 19 years olds that asked me out the youngest i actually accepted was 23 but i think its because most of the guys my age are already in relationships
2006-07-12 00:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
younger guys love older women,they know what they want and know what to do.Just like older men who want younger women,younger women are more fun and dont have so much stress and younger women put more effert into making the man feel good,so for all the older women here is some good idvice,stay young.
2006-07-12 00:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
older men aren't usually looking for women their own age..they are looking for the younger women...younger men can see the value of having an older woman...my fiance is 23..he's never dated women his own age...I'm 43 now and I'm not the oldest women he's been with...I will however, be the last woman...lol...
2006-07-12 00:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you probably feel "free" and they can since this.you probably do not look your age either. from your picture you look like you are 20. this will be considered a very good thing in the next decade or so. i was devistated when i turned thirty, but you know what? i have loved every minute of it. be flattered not worried.
2006-07-12 00:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sending the vibe to the younger and more verile guys. when you are looking for a mate you will dress more conservatively and older guys will start looking your way. right now you are a fun romp in the hay and nothing more.
2006-07-12 00:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you must be looking younger then your actual age. On that ground, I congratulate you for keeping yourself in good shape.
2006-07-12 00:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by apple2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They find you attractive, and they've got the balls to ask you out. Be flattered. A lot of younger men like "older ladies". Be damn flattered that you're one of them, unless you're tired of male attention. God Bless you.
2006-07-12 00:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋