i have known this one guy and he is a really good friend of mine and we both "like" each other but were scared to go past friends but i still enjoy all the time i spend with him. but now i met this other guy and he seems to be really into me and i think hes really nice and funny and all but i dont wanna give up what i have with my "not so much just friend" anymore! what should i do?
2006-07-11 17:30:57 · 13 answers · asked by russian_honey007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you want to move it forward with your friend? It sounds like you do but you're just afraid to. Just do it. He likes you and you like him. If you bring in this new guy, your friend will get hurt and then maybe the new guy will turn out to not be what you thought he was and then you'll have drama up the wazoo, and a broken heart. No one wants that. So just be with your friend! Have fun!!
But whatever you do, do NOT lead anyone on. Playing games is for middle school kids.
2006-07-11 17:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a fun delimma! Ok...so if the one guy is just your friend...you're not going to lose him by going out with someone else right?
I say go out with the other guy and see what he's like....after all...your friend should still be your friend (if that's all he wants to be)...or he'll tell you how he feels about you and you can cross that bridge when you get there.
2006-07-12 00:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unable to choose one from the other, then choose neither. You are the only one who can answer this question and if you cannot find the answer without being certain, you may end up with two friends less.
2006-07-12 00:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Enk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your friend because that is who you know and trust. I'm pretty sure that it would become more than just friends since you both really like each other.what if you really start to know the other boy and hes not what you think, so i say just don't give up your "just friends relationship".
2006-07-12 00:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both agreed to not expand upon your friendship, start goin out with the other guy. however of course you are goin to have to lessen the amount of time being spent with your friend. otherwise the boyfriend will get jeolous big time.
2006-07-12 00:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, I think if I can answer your question I should be able to answer my own questions in life.... But, here goes: Close your eyes and tell me which one you see growing old with? That is the one to choose. Best wishes
2006-07-12 00:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with the friend, you know him, and it probably would last longer. This guy that you just met sound more like lust. I would go with the friend.
2006-07-12 00:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough question
you have to ask yourself, who can you see yourself with? do you want to be 'just friends' you the first guy? would it effect your friendship with him if you went with the second guy
be mindful of both of their feelings, men can sometimes be fragile in this regard. Think it through carefully and don't play them
2006-07-12 00:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED NOT CHOSE ANYONE UNTIL YOU FIQURED OUT
WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH. THE FACT THAT YOU ARE
PLAYING GAMES WITH THESE YOUNG MEN IS NOT GOOD
AND WHAT THEY SAY WHAT GO AROND COME AROUND
AND YOU MAY BE BY YOURSELF IN A MINUTE.
2006-07-12 00:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friend a friend,friends ship is forever.
2006-07-12 00:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋