My boyfriend just told me a while ago that back when we were just dating, before we started having sex, that he use to masturbate thinking about me. And he said that he still does that sometimes, I mean that kinda makes me feel uneasy, a bit creeped out. I mean is that something that normal guys do?
2006-07-11 17:22:50 · 24 answers · asked by Z ben 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who'd you have in your mind, when you were getting yourself off before the two of you started getting it on?!?
...For his sake, If it wasn't him, I hope he doesn't found out.
Most guys jerk off thinking about somebody, feel fortunate, that you're bloke's so hot for you, you're all he wants to fantasize about. And he even had the balls to let you know. That's not creepy, that's somewhere between sweet and kinky. Sounds like he's a keeper.
2006-07-11 17:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Peter Pan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Only the healthy ones of us. As a retired mental health practitioner, whose Masters Degree practicum was entitled "Male Sexuality", I can assure you that masturbation by either gender is one of the healthiest things that occur, and if you happen to be the focus of your boyfriend's or lover's masturbatory fantasies, you should be flattered. It reflects his desires and affections for you, and not others. God Bless you.
2006-07-11 17:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does sound a little weird, especially before u guys started having sex. But just be glad he thinks of u and not sum1 else.
2006-07-11 17:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal.
2006-07-11 17:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by freightliner357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better u then someone else and I think this kind of thing is normal for guys to do.
At least he told u this, he could have kept it from u
2006-07-11 17:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is something that normal guys do and not unusual at all. The fact he can confide this to you is a good sign and at least hes not fantasizing about someone else.
2006-07-11 17:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by valerie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be VERY happy he does that while thinking of you...would you rather he be thinking of someone else?..hell NO!...materbating is a natural human thing to do..there is nothing wrong with it...him telling you that, is a way he's showing you how much he cares about you...how much he trusts you...don't be "weirded out" over that..you must be really young to think that way?
2006-07-11 17:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a lady, i recognize even as gay adult men praise me. it continually feels so authentic, because you recognize they don't favor something in go back. regardless of the indisputable fact that, if a gay woman became "attracted" to me, can no longer help yet say i must be extremely weirded out.
2016-11-06 06:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure? Maybe on that boring cold lonely night at home but to tell their girlfriend about it?? Nooooooooo no no no, that's flipping creepy as hell. Tell him if he needs to NEVER say that again to anyone in his future or else he's not going to have a future with you or any other girl.
2006-07-11 17:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Yeah, and here's a real shocker, girls masturbate too!!! thinking about thier boyfriends.
2006-07-11 17:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋