me and my g/f r going 2 hve sex for the first time.
I hve heard that for the first time it is sometimes painfull for the girls.
I love my g/f very much and dont want 2 hurt her at any cost.
Any suggestions ?
Tell me the ways by which it wont hurt her.
2006-07-11 17:06:44 · 18 answers · asked by AD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please also tell me how to do it properly with her for the fiest time.
And also tell me what r the things that may happen and what should i do.
2006-07-11 18:20:18 · update #1
The best way to not hurt her is wait until you are married. If you have to have sex now go slow.
2006-07-11 17:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by boogieboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, she will have pain, and there will be blood.there is nothing you can do to stop that.being too tender will not help.if you concentrate on her clitoris and get her to the point of orgasm then quickly enter her she will not feel as bad as if you just shoved it in at the start. but after the first time if you treat her like a gentleman should she will let you do it all the time sometimes up to 4 times a day.use some lubricated condoms and good luck.hope this helps.
2006-07-11 17:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what it will hurt..any position...and type of condom...it will hurt but in a way it wont be her fault or yours ......it just happens......so u have to deal with it the second or third time it probably wont hurt for her trust me my first time was soooo painful but i am not a sex addict i only had it twice....i'm not all that into it
2006-07-11 17:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt her regardless. Be gentle and understanding. Be sure to communicate with her and use a lubricant, like K-Y Jelly.
2006-07-11 17:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by ucyimadiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not slow!!!! dont listen to that guy. You cant completely avoid the pain sometimes tho....
2006-07-11 17:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by itsbcimrussian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her and don't want to hurt her Waite until you & her are ready.
2006-07-11 17:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow...and try foreplay before moving into sex.
2006-07-11 17:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow or fast its gonna hurt anyways,just be gentle
2006-07-11 17:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , send her over here first and i'll be real gental with her and trust me after she gets back it ain't gonna hurt no mo
2006-07-11 17:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are pretty big you won't hurt her very bad at all.
2006-07-11 17:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by shmifty__14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋