I have a really good friend. He is soon 19 and i am 15. ad lets just say...he is not one of the thinnest people i know. I know that so mean to say. i have a really hard time addmiting it but thats the only reason i am not attracted to him. however, he always tells me he is attracted to me and he always hugs me and he always wants to cuddle and stuff. andyesterday he askedme what i would do if we were hanging out and he suddenly kissed me. i said i dont know, even thought i know i would probably wouldnt even let him kiss me. anyways, he is such a cool person, one of the best people i have ever met. what should i do? should i be honest with himand tell him to stop and that i am not interested? I really dont wanna hurt his feelings and i really dont want to lose his friendship. but he keeps making me uncomfortable...
2006-07-11 16:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by fancylady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would tell him that you just see him as like your brother but make sure not to crush his self eestem... like i would just be nice and say you are always there for me kinda either like the brother you never had or a better brother then you have then he should get the picture
2006-07-11 17:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he was really a good friend then he should be able to understand your wishes. he will be hurt by what you have to say but those are just feelings, and they go away. or maybe you should give him a chance, but thats your desicion. just cause he has a little weight on him is that really a reason not to be with him, just put yourself in his position. think of how you would like to be treated. there aren't alot of nice men out there that take time to adore the person they care about. or maybe you could very nicely help him lose the wieght. well good luck with what ever you do and God bless.
2006-07-12 00:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by SofiaS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know and set the limits. He should understand as a good friend. If not, well, he might not be the best of friends.
2006-07-12 00:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth. I you don't want to hurt him them tell him the truth. By not telling the truth you are hurting him. Don't Pretend just be honest.
2006-07-12 00:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Crushed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you should be honest with him about how you feel about
being just friends with him instead of anything else. as for his
weight, just be your self and tell him the truth.
2006-07-12 00:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you want to keep it friends only. and kissing could ruin that friendship.
2006-07-12 00:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b honest with him, but dont b rude about it, just tell him that u want to stay friends just with no benifets
2006-07-12 00:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him, that u 2 can b friends and nuthin more, he shood understand
2006-07-12 00:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by La_Di_Da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋