2006-07-11 16:46:50 · 16 answers · asked by rakesh_voswalk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as long as your ok with it, then its ok, but if you feel bad about it.. dont do it
2006-07-11 16:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should try out the merchandise before committing a life time. The old saying.. you wouldn't buy the car without test driving it first would you? Sexual relations are a VERY big part of a marriage and relationship.. if you find out that you are not compatiable in that area after you say I do.. then you in my book are setting yourself up for a disaster.. and divorce later down the road.
2006-07-11 23:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't ok. Our bodies are God's gift and temple. Do not just let anyone do anything to it. You have to wait for the right person and then marraige. That's what's right. Just because others are doing pre-martial sex dosen't mean it's right. (: Wait. That's a choice you'll never regret.
2006-07-11 23:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ocean Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. you won't regret it. What is the point of going around sleeping with people! if you wait then you will actually know the person and love them, that time will be special. Don't you want to be the only person that your spouse has been with? Don't you want to know that when you get married your spouse wont be rating you to someone else that they have slept with. Wait!
2006-07-11 23:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Crushed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to wait till marriage cuz then you'll know if he's really in it for love or sex. but i here that you might not like the guy once you sleep with him?
2006-07-11 23:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a beautiful and natural thing and if you are physicaly and mentaly ready to handle that then it shouldn't matter if your married or not. If your a stupid kid who just wants to have an orgasm, then you shouldn't be held responsible for making that important of a decision.
2006-07-11 23:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by R-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok. Respect yourself and keep your body to your husband. Do not be like a piece of gum people chew it then throw it.
2006-07-11 23:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your own values.
Personally I wouldn't want to marry someone I had not had sex with.
Too much blind commitment
2006-07-11 23:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt the same about sex before i got married as i did after i got married...and guess what, i still feel the same about it now im divorced!!! Theres nothing like it....
hahaha
2006-07-12 00:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a way to get to know each other in ways that you wont know till you do.You just have to both be in agreement with it.
2006-07-11 23:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is perfectly fine as long as you see yourself with the person forever i wouldnt just to do it tho
2006-07-11 23:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋