My boyfriend and I have had several threesomes with a few other girls. Now, I told him I want to have a threesome or foursome with him and some other guys. He isn't going for it. I told him it's not fair that he gets to have his way but I dont get to have my way. We have an open relationship and he isnt the jealous type, but he got really upset when I said I would do it without him then. Why is he acting this way?
2006-07-11 16:45:00 · 13 answers · asked by Lera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am bisexual, and he isnt. I have told him that the other guys would just be for me, not him.
2006-07-11 16:51:39 · update #1
I am not into threesomes either of the FFM or MMF style, but if you have an open relationship try to find two other guys to have your threesome with. Video tape it and make him watch how much you enjoyed it and maybe he might be open to it.
2006-07-11 17:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
WoW--Both Holes--Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
He's insecure, Jealous (underneath the surface), and homophobic.
Sounds like he can't get it up for you around guys.
It's kind of disturbing to some guys to think of that without thinking they might have to witness a swordfight or two.---LOL
Here's something to try out>
Buy some smut mags and put 'em on/in his nightstand, make sure he's not and don't be around when he's checking them out for the first time.
Play "Aloof" for about a week, then bring the subject up again, and see what he says.
2006-07-11 23:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't think he was taught to share. And he really wishes that you did NOT have an open relationship and he is jealous. Hands down. He has had his fun, it's only fair that you get yours...
2006-07-12 01:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows why it upsets him. I do suggest that in the future you discuss these things before you embark on the adventure. You might have felt differently if you had known he wasn't interested in more men in the bed.
2006-07-11 23:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't feel comfortable having sex with/around other guys. There are certain things that guys just don't want to know, and their friends penis size is one of them. Most mature guys don't get aroused while taking showers together, and it would make them uncomfortable doing it around other guys.
2006-07-11 23:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Armin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i see you are letting him control you... or maybe he isnt into guys like that... maybe he thinks you will find someone better... i would tell him that it is unfair to be with girls and not guys... if he doesnt listen then maybe tell him no more three somes with girls
2006-07-11 23:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the thought of himself and another guy naked prolly freaked him out. It sounds to me like he wants to do what he wants but he wants you to be with only him.
2006-07-11 23:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea really I'll sidestep the question all together and say that you need help... and you two shouldn't be w/ each other anyway
2006-07-11 23:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are discusting! Why would you ever want to do that?
2006-07-11 23:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Crushed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask him why he dont wanna do it like you said. If he love you he will tell you i will do it if not please dont be a fool dump him
2006-07-11 23:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋