i've been dumped for a small mistake..that aint fair,cause he used to made the same mistake as i do..wat shud i do??
2006-07-11 16:40:58 · 50 answers · asked by i am me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only person who can make you sad is your self. Change the way you look at things and things around you will change. Sounds like your boy friend was the loser. Say to yourself "I want to be happy" say it whenever you feel bad and you'll start to
feel better about yourself. Then you'll start to attract positive energy and positive people into your life. Good luck to you my friend.
2006-07-11 16:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by cowboybabeeup 4 · 9⤊ 3⤋
hhhmm, tuffy. If I were in you shoes. I would think one of 2 things. With all feelings aside. If he's made the same mistakes and can be forgiven. The rule should apply to you. Although not sure what the mistake is, if he truely love yous give him a chance to cool over and then face him once again.Remember. we are all human and make mistakes. And that mistakes are made simply to learn from. Regardless of if he made the same mistake first. It's in our nature to learn from our mistakes. Even if someone else has made the mistake we tend to want to try and learn for ourselves.
If he doesn't at least try to talk it over than he is not as forgiving as you. And you should move on and find someone else.
Good luck. I hope it works out in your favor!
2006-07-11 16:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by motya2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is using the small mistake as an excuse for breaking up with you. He probably had other reasons, but didn't want to tell you and make you mad. I know it's hard, but try to move on and find someone who cares about you enough that one or two small mistakes won't matter.
2006-07-11 16:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u still love him? Cos for a person to dump another for a small mistake... well, i think it is gd that you dun hv him anymore. On the other hand, if u wan things to done fairly, hv a talk with him. Tel him how u feel and offers suggestions hw such conflicts can be solved. Alot of conflicts can be solved by sitting down and talk it out. All the best to ya! =)
2006-07-11 16:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by ID t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're better off with someone else i think. and when you finally find him, this time do the dump thing, not the guy. it'll hurt less. j/k (:
forget about the guy and think for a while. and go over the things you've done that might be wrong and you gotta correct it so you won't do the same mistake when you get involve in another relationship. "don't get mad, get even." -john tucker must die"(lol). make the guy feel sorry for dumping you and let him know how ur dyin to tell him "it's ur lost, not mine(evil grin)". teehee!
2006-07-11 16:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by naja_saul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were not dumped for a small mistake. the mistake was only used as a reason. us guys commonly want to break up with a female and when something small happens we make it much bigger than what it should be and call it quits. read men are from mars women are from venus, it will explain alot and make you feel better because you'll understand more about us guys.
2006-07-11 16:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by African-American Thug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. Some men think it is ok to make mistakes but will never feel the same if you make the same one. I have seen this many time. Nothing you can do but go on and don't go back because it will be a long time before he changes his course. And I believe he left you quicky because he need you to make a mistake in hopes to leave you anyway. I think you have been sat up by him..
2006-07-11 16:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk with him and just explain that we are all human and we all make mistakes tell him that u will try not to do it again and that u really love him and that u don't want this mistake to break u two up.
2006-07-11 16:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, I'm not sure what the mistake was, but mabey let him cool off then try talking to him, but don't throw it in his face that he used to make the same mistake.. for right now this is about what you have done not him....... If you don't turn it around on him you will get further ahead
2006-07-11 16:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What mistake? If it was small, get over him because he shouldn't have dumped you for something little. If it wasn't small, you should have dumped him long ago for doing it, and if you forgave him, he should have forgiven you too, so he's an ***. In other words, just go on with life.
2006-07-11 16:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on he couldnt handle it after you did the same thing he used to do which aint fair but now you know he couldnt accept what you did so he chickened out get over him and find you someone who undersyands mistakes are mistakes and somethings you should let go and forgive
2006-07-11 16:45:53 · answer #11 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋