I'v found myself in a bad situation and i am kinda confused on what to do. I meet this guy around 4 months ago, he's my older brothers best friend, and we meet while i was clubbin with my brother, we just kinda clicked, and i stayed at his house that same nite, my brother seem totaly cool with it, so that made things easyer.
Few weeks later we got together again, and just chatted, and it seemed we where getting along fine, and we had some things in commun.. so that was cool!
We kinda had a bad experience, the first time we did it, i kinda snaped his foreskin off(sorry guys), of which i thought he would never want to see me again, but he did and was really cool about it all.
Then he stopped calling, so i started datin someone else, cause i did not see the point in always waitin on him to get in touch with me, now he has gotten bk in touch after 3 week, told me he was really busy with work but whats to see me again i do like both of them, but i just am not sure what to do?
2006-07-11 16:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by Shelly w! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also told my brother that he thought the world of me, of which i don't know how to take that?
So is he worth me waitin, or is he just a player? and wantin the one thing?
He is always some years older than me!
2006-07-11 16:40:39 · update #1
He also told my brother that he thought the world of me, of which i don't know how to take that?
So is he worth me waitin, or is he just a player? and wantin the one thing?
He is always some years older than me!
2006-07-11 16:40:57 · update #2
The foreskin was half his fault as much mine, these things can happen while havin sex, but it aint the end of the world....
2006-07-11 16:45:08 · update #3
Was not a break lol, he just was workin the whole 3 weeks without a break but does not take 2 mins to pick up a phone!
2006-07-11 17:06:22 · update #4
Forlorn Hope, to answer your " It doesn't come off" The bit of skin that holds the foreskin to help it move bk and foward, onced that snaps you have to get the foreskin removed...
2006-07-11 21:26:10 · update #5
dont beat yourself up over this sometimes in life the thing or person we want just doesnt materialise
i sense you are a caring person but you just need to be patient and start looking elsewhere for guys
clubs and suchlike attract certain types of people with certain agendas go for fun but dont look for a relationship there
you have more chance of finding someone sincere elsewhere even via these answers
2006-07-11 20:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by jagkes 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Err, so what do you want? I mean, you are not sure what to do because of what he just told your brother? Em, doesn't that mean that you don't really trust him and.. you don't think that he's worth it? Em, maybe you should tell him the real truth. I think if I'm in your situation, I would be confuse too. You like both of them but which one you like better? And you like them like like like(friend or a really nice person) or is it more like there's a real chemistry stuff(like like love)? Darn, anyway you should think again about your real feeling to both of them, don't follow logic so much and .. talk about the issue with him(your first bf). What with him, just gone for work without telling you anything? Maybe he really need a break(like someone before me said) at the time. You should ask him about that anyway.
2006-07-11 16:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies, ladies ladies... we know that you are worth the effort. However, if you, and I mean all of you, are ready to hook-up after a few times together, you are the ones that determine whether the guy if on the field or not. Yes iswhat every, and I mean EVERY GUY is hoping to hear from most of the girls he sees. We all want the story good enough to write to Penthouse. Do you want to be the subject? Women today are so ready to "bed" a guy to keep him when the way to "really keep him is to avoid the bed.
2006-07-11 16:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by louisofva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know whats best, move on and date! your a single person and someone cannot leave you hanging for 3 weeks! get to know someone new and let him know he missed the boat by not returning his calls! and if he catches you on the phone, dont stay on the line for a long time, always get off the phone first, let him know how "busy" you are!
give it too him just the same as he gave you. you see the reality is, he met someone and they turned out not to like him as much, so know he realized that and wants someone who was feeling him back in his life!
2006-07-11 16:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by rayjenne24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Clubbin" is your first mistake.
If you want to find a nice guy don't go to a bar for heaven sake!
All they want is a good lay. When they get what they want they move on till they want it again. Get involved in a group of some sort that has same hobby's, that you like, sports, church etc.
Bar relationships are for losers. Don't be one!
2006-07-11 16:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flipp i think i would need a break if my foreskin snapped it sorta sounds painful but jokin aside it sounds like he is still playing the field if your new guy is nice stick with him and be more gentle with the old foreskin thingy
2006-07-11 17:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is "snapped his foreskin off"??? It don't come off...
Nope, guys aren't worth the trouble... Become a lesbian!!! ;)
2006-07-11 21:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY, YOU HAD FUN WHILE IT WAS GOOD BUT THIS TIME WHEN YOU GO BACK IT WON'T BE AS GOOD AND YOU MAY HAVE A FALLING OUT. ONE THING I LEARNED NOT TO DO WAS GET INVOLVED WITH MY FAMILY FRIENDS. ITS NOT A GOOD THING TO DO. PUMP THE BRAKES BABY
2006-07-11 16:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by SIRDUKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SNAPPED HIS FORESKIN OFF??????????????
No wonder he needed a break
2006-07-11 16:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋