how many chances do you think you should give a person if they keep ******* up.
2006-07-11 16:08:45 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh....I know this one....I know this one....ummm. O'k. I'll be serious for once in my life and actually use the MS in Counseling degree. Well, here it is...
You will continue to give this person "chances" until you are ready to move on. You might have to reach "rock bottom." Good luck to you.
My questions for YOU are: ..."What keeps you in this relationship and what STOPS you from moving on?"
2006-07-11 16:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by MrG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-07-11 23:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something to think about. We are all glasses of water...while some might think their full at 3/4 of a glass..others might believe their full when the glass is overflowing. If you don't understand that...we all have different limits, how many chances we'll give someone. You might have had enough of giving someone a "second" chance after 10 times..it might take me 20 before I get to that point. No-one can answer ...when is enough, enough?...except you!
2006-07-11 23:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey a person who keeps messing up does not necessarily make him a bad person. I'm sure you don't do the right thing all the time. Hey if he keeps messing up and he keeps coming back, that just means that your the one for him. After tasting all the ice cream in the store, he still prefers you. If you love him, you would love all of him, including his faults. So give him infinte chances.
2006-07-11 23:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by theWord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they "keep" ******* up , I'd say you have your answer. And that you have already given too many chances. Best to break free now.Wish you luck.
2006-07-11 23:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how they are screwing up, if it is minor things that you can overlook then give them as many chances as you feel you can without being a fool, if it is like cheating or abuse I'd only give them one chance, because out of respect for myself and my wellbeing I'm not going to put up with it, if it affects your trust and they keep doing it over and over and they know how you feel and what it is doing to you then as hard as it might be to do it you need to get out and let them go.
2006-07-11 23:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many as feels right. The moment it stops feeling right giving them another chance, kick them to the curb.
2006-07-11 23:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by JCS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 2, there would be no third chance if they mess up the second time.
2006-07-11 23:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How tired of it are you?We can offer you all kinds of advice,but the chose is still yours.Are you so in love that you are willing to put up with it constantly?If not you need to make a move.
2006-07-11 23:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say one b-cause if they do it once than u can tell them that it's not cool with what they did and if he does it again than **** it and it was fun while it lasted but it's ova
2006-07-11 23:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Brittney W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋