I have a hard time introducing myself to girls.?

Question

I have a hard time talking to girls who I've never spoken to in school. I want to start doing this when school starts up. I just do not have the courage to do it. I think that they will think of me as a loser. I am not ugly, I'm just afraid. I cannot find the courage to go up to a group of girls in the mall and introduce myself because I think that they will think of me as a loser. I am a 16 year old who has these problems. Somebody please help me! Give me reason to do this.

Answer 1

greg, just calm down. okay.. u can do this.. u just need to relax and dont worry about if they are going to think your a loser. because i bet that u rnt. u just have to act like they have been your friends for a long time, and just clear your mind. the only thing that should go thro ur mind is about how u can do it. and how much they r gonna like u u can do it

Answer 2

Just start talking about something that is of interest to you. Don't be fake - if you are you may be wasting your time with a girl who won't like the real you.

Answer 3

I have those problems with guys! Im really shy and im afraid they will think im a freak if I talk to them. so your not alone. but sorry I have no advice, except to be yourself, relax and have confidence. I would love a guy to just come up and talk to me. ;)

Answer 4

dude just talk to one only. try askmen.com, more-selfesteem.com, communicationconfidence.com, howtosucceedwithwomen.com, sosuave.com, and just chill. i do small talk. talk about their clothes. say hey i think your dress brings out the color in your eyes. or just say hi. it's that simple. i was shy at your age and now i feel more comfortable. women are just as scared of meeting us also.

Answer 5

try talking 2 last year's year book? good luck u need it...jk