I have been going after this girl for awhile and told how I feel about her. She was going out with some guy who didn't want anything to do with her. Now she finally realize that he doesn't love her and there are 2 other people who like her now. One I know he doesn't have any chance with her and the other have a slim chance. Every time I talked to her I keep on sweet talking her. Telling her that she is beautiful everyday, but i still get no respond from her. Next week is her birthday too and I don't wanna cause anymore drama before then. I also invited her to my cousin bonfire last week she came to it. Don't worry girls I was being a total gentlemen and didn't stare too much at her or any other girls on the beach. What I want to know is to keep pushing with my sweet talking or keep the sweet talking to minium? So, please steer me in the right direction.
2006-07-11 15:49:51 · 11 answers · asked by Berties 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont over do it with the sweet talkin because it can get a lil to annoying when you pass the limit. why dont you just tell her again you know what i really like you and tell her all the things you like about it and what makes them so noticeable. good luck and remember sweet talk one the down low sometimes.
2006-07-11 15:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if you have REALLY tried to tell her how you feel and gotten no response, maybe she is just being nice to you but doesn't like you as much as you like her but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Hard to take i know but possibly true. On the other hand, maybe she is just really shy. Then again she possibly just doesn't want to be in a relationship so soon after she realized that the guy she wanted didn't give a crap about her. Just wait it out, try to talk to her if you feel you need to!
2006-07-11 22:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by flutter_by_baby20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo im goin thru the same thing u are right now. i know that thing sucks when u know she's out there havin fun with some dude that can give 2 craps bout her and your at home just hopin and wishin thats she's okay and is at least havin a smile on her face. just keep doin ya thing just as long as she knows where u stand and how much u really care for her. thats what im doin right now. it's gonna take a long time but at the long run i know both of ya gonna be happy well i sure as hell hope so.
2006-07-11 23:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by arondmyway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is a bigger chance to tell you not to keep going after this girl. Don't run after her no more let her notice you on her own. Your so scared she might goto one of those other guys that you feel like you need to keep track of her by running after her. If she doesn't notice you on her own then maybe it wasn't meant to be. Then again she may very much like you. Just relax and let nature take its course.
2006-07-11 22:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by g_gurl161 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would work so hard to get someone to like me. Will you have to keep "sweet-talking" her if she decides to be with you? If after letting her know that you're interested in her & she doesn't respond in my favor I I would have to walk. Nobody's worth begging. But that's just me.
2006-07-11 22:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should back off a little. Maybe she is getting to use to you always being there. Maybe she'll realize your true intentions and how much you love her. Just let her know you love her and your always there but give her space.
2006-07-15 16:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Blackcatkurosaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it to minium ... She just neeeds to wake up and decide what she wants. Just try to keep what your doing up.... Maybe you to can get together and have a heart to heart lay it on the table and ask her what she really wants and who. hopefully she will pick you and stay with you. good luck.
2006-07-11 22:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off a little. Dont ignore her tho. secretly she probably likes the compliments but they are being given to her. Make her dig for them a little. That way you really know how she feels. once you back off alittle, it would probably draw her in alittle too. hope that helps!
2006-07-11 22:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by kelly09620 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe sweet talking isnt the only answer. just be yourself and really show her you are sincere and if that doesnt work then you at least know you gave your best which was yourself and if she doesnt respond then maybe just be friends
2006-07-11 22:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her if she likes you. she probably does but she just got out of a relationship maybe she needs time.
2006-07-11 22:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋