2006-07-11 15:22:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course there is.
Be prepared to think outside the box. Look in some interesting and creative places for potential partners.
A lot of my good-looking divorced friends are still looking because they keep turning down really great guys for silly reasons, such as "He doesn't run his own business" or "He's divorced as well" or "He's good-looking but he's not great-looking". Have realistic expectations. Give men a chance.
2006-07-11 15:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always hope. I am in my 40's too! The great thing about our 40's is we know the women we are and we have lived life and understand so much more! I feel so in touch with myself and I am so uninhibited and know what I want. If a good man comes along for you, great, but if not, take care of you! Love yourself first and be all that you can be as an individual. A man in your life will be a bonus! Don't settle just because you think it may be too late. You are still young and still deserve to find someone who treats you like gold! Good luck! Be happy and I know things will work out for you the way they are meant to!
2006-07-11 22:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by mjcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cathy:
Of course, there's hope. There's not only hope, but real possibility.
Let me let you in on a little secret. Its not about FINDING the right person. Its a matter of BEING the right person. If you learn how to BE the right person in whomever's life, all doors will open to and for you.
40ish is no longer old. Its not even middle aged. Its late "young adult," with lots of promise left.
Be real, genuine, authentic. Know who you are, what you need, and who and what you want. Go after it clearly, directly, without fear or apology.
There's a man out there waiting and LONGING for someone who can do it in this way.
I'd LOVE to hear more from you, more about your needs, wants, yearnings, longings.
2006-07-11 22:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by DalDrWill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Cat, it depends where you are, and other stuff. I'm 42 going on 43. Never married. I'm a virgin. I cook. I can be creative, I've wanted to be get married, have sex and become a father for 22 years. I'm still waiting. I'm a good man, trust worthy, relaible, sincere, I have a slight sense of humor, I live alone (like people our ages are supposed to). I can be strict, but I never punch or even pick up a bat and hit with it. Let's email! immrpancakes@yahoo.com is my address. I don't currently have messenger.
2006-07-11 22:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is! There are a lot of good men out there and it's just a question of where to look for a good man, am I correct? I know of a cool dating site called webdate_dot_com, I'm sure you're gonna have a lot of fun in this site...lots of nice, not to mention cute guys who would gladly give you a fun night out! so, go and find your Mr. Right already!
2006-07-12 01:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put Your IM Up You"ll Have A Computer Full To Cull Through..... Good Luck
2006-07-11 22:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all sounds good to me except the divorced part that sucks for anyone but there are many good men looking for a gal like you
2006-07-11 22:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope there's no hope. My mom's been dating for the last two years. And yes she has children, but they are adult children. She's just a couple years older than you.
2006-07-11 22:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Manda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, there sure is hope. Let's chat. aeastwood04@yahoo.com
2006-07-11 22:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is cos I found Christmas and she found me!!!!
2006-07-11 22:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋