ok so im in a relationship with a REALLY great guy...this guy is very sweet to me nd he does alot of nice things for me...but sometimes i like him ALOT nd sometimes its just like ew get away from me...nd im still kinda liking my ex...nd ahhh i dunno wht to do...but the guy im dating now he says he wants to marrry me nd hes already talking about the future...nd i dunt think i want a future with him...i dunno yu people tell me what to do cause i cant make up my mind.
2006-07-11 15:20:31 · 5 answers · asked by missunderstood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already answered you own question, You do not feel nothing for this man but you are into your ex.
2006-07-11 15:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to make up your mind. If the current guy likes you a lot he'll wait for you if he really wants to get married. I dont know how old you both are. I am assuming very young. From my experience and from learning other peoples situation like this one, I have learned that making milestone decisions like marriage should be thought over. If he loves you he'll wait. That's the bottom line. If he doesn't then he wasn't meant to be. Take it slowly. Enjoy what you have with him. Yes, it is pretty normal to have mxed feelings like the one you are describing. We are always exploring our feelings. But if, like you say, that he loves you very much, then make sure to tell him what you feel. Understand also, it takes lots of time to get over past boyfriends/girlfriends. Time will heal you. Let time be on your side. Allow yourself the space and time sweetheart!!!
2006-07-11 22:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not completely committed to someone, you should never marry them. Marriage isn't something to be taken lightly. The fact that you are even considering marrying your boyfriend when you are still having feelings for you ex proves that you are not in a place to take such an important step in your life.
2006-07-11 22:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these relations are meant to give you and idea of the future, if you refuse the future with him, then the relation will not continue, you must leave him and think about a person who you could think that you will live all of your life with, that is meant by love and by being in a serious relationship
2006-07-11 22:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make up your mind.
2006-07-11 22:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋