So my girlfriend got her tongue pierced. It ended up being crooked and she took it out. I told her at least 3 times that I'd take her back to the place to get her money back and she told me "It's not about the money". Then some guy she works with, who she isn't even friends with, told her he'd take her and yell at the people and get her money back, and not only did she say she'd go with him, she called me all happy about it and didn't understand why I got mad at that. Back me up or knock me down, did I have the right to be mad?
2006-07-11 14:35:48 · 31 answers · asked by Weirded Out 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wasn't about the money. She wanted someone to go back to the place and yell at them like a vicious, bloodthirsty savage, which you did not offer to do. You only wanted to nicely ask for her money back, she wanted you to scream and yell at them like a demented, psychotic, lunatic.
Change the offer.
2006-07-11 14:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend sucks. Ditch the *****.
You have a right to be mad. Men like to take care of their women. Men also want their women to want the man to take care of them (does that make sense?). So the fact that she let someone else stick up for her is a big downer for you. I understand completely. She has a thing for that guy and may be losing interest in you, like I said, get rid of her. Get a woman that appreciates you and respects your feelings.
2006-07-11 21:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by mamajoven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say for sure...but I sense you may have goofed it somewhere in handling the ordeal. Did you accidentally leave her feeling foolish when it didn't come out right. Sounds like something turned her off to where it was no longer just an issue about getting reimbursed for a bad job.
2006-07-11 21:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you had the right. I would've taken that guy, and hit him so hard so many times his kids would be sore. And if she's more willing to let some other guy stand up for her than her own boyfriend, she needs her priorities straightened. And then she rubbed your face in it? Either she's a true blonde or just playing dumb, becasue everyone knows better than that garbage. I would've freaked out...you're a better man than me, there'd have been a fight there if it was me.
2006-07-11 21:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a freak. Move on. You've probably been ignoring this kind of thing for a while now. Time to add it up and see how many other times she has seemed a 'little' flaky, but you thought she would change.
Been there, seen it.
2006-07-11 21:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it's not you, its a personal space issue between you and your girlfriend. And when I mean personal space I mean her bubble.
I wouldn't even get mad over it, just tell her that you were hurt and maybe she'll talk to you about it. But I wouldn't drag this out...trust me you'll end up going nowhere. hope that helps you out.
2006-07-11 21:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just didn't want you to get upset because she loves you. Ask her why she did it (not in an angry way, just ask her so you can see her point). It's ok for your gf to have other friends and to know your and her limitations. If this really bugs you that much, then maybe you two aren't as compatible as you thought and you need to move on.
2006-07-11 21:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pretty upset.
Maybe you should invite another woman over to cook dinner for you. Then after you're done eating give her a call and hapilly tell her about it. Then she'll understand.
2006-07-11 21:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be too. sounds like the kind of thing that my friend would do to me. she'll ask me advice on something and wont take it. then ask someone else and take the same advice from them. it gets pretty frustrating sometimes. we're only friends though. hope things work out for ya.
2006-07-11 21:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by dmori23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got a right 2 b mad b'cuz that was stupid.
2006-07-11 21:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Tyegirl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋