ok heres the thing i am 14 years old and last year on june 5 my mom got married and moved me to this small town and i had to go to this school, no one liked me. so after a year my mom got a divorse and we moved to Salina Kansas and i was so happy there and i never wanted to move.Then after like 6 months my mom decides to move back with the guy that she got divorsed with and so we did and now all i do is eat sleep and cry and i have gained so much weight and i am sooo depressed where i am living now and i just recently went to Salina to stay with my friend for a couple of days and i had sooo much fun, then i came home and am back to doing nothing again. my whole family lives in Salina and i have tried to get my mom to let me move in with one of my aunts but she wont let me even though she knows that i will be happier there with all my friends. What should i do please help?
2006-07-11 14:24:24 · 7 answers · asked by Marisa S 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
and the town that i moved back to the people have already told me on msn that they are going to make my life a living hell and i even showed my mom.
2006-07-11 14:30:18 · update #1
and another thing we have moved 27 times mainly because my mom wants to be with one guy or the other
2006-07-11 14:41:07 · update #2
Wow, it sounds like you are in a really tough situation.
It also sounds like your mom has made some really selfish decisions (thinking more of what she wants and less of what you need).
You miss stability.
Have you tried talking with one of your aunts and having them try and convince your mom to let you go and stay with them?
You are only 14 and you really can't make decisions for yourself yet (even though you really want to).
It's not fair for your mom to keep moving you around from town to town for some guy so maybe your extended family could help you if you talked with them.
Good luck. Hang in there, get good grades no matter where you end up and in four years, you can leave and go away to college. I know it sounds like a long time but it really isn't.
Just remember how you are feeling and someday, when you are a parent, don't do this to your children. Educate yourself, take your time and live the kind of life that you know to be right.
2006-07-11 14:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by lilly 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, sad to say from the sound of things your mom will probably end up breaking up with the guy again. You may have to go through some more moving and more challenges. You are at such a delicate age, I hope you become detirmined to make the best of your situation. Use this time to concentrate on your academics. Set goals for yourself. If you keep looking you may find a good friend there, and that will help too. If your depression gets worse or doesn't improve ask your mom to get help for you. You can talk to a doctor and he can recommend possible medication or therapy. There are risks to medication but it can help. Sometimes just going for a walk can make you feel better. Wish I could help you more.
2006-07-11 14:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't say I would be brave enough to do what you're suggesting. Do you have a legal right to ask to move? You might be able to take this route. Try contacting a law student at a college near you if you have to take drastic measures. I was pretty depressed for a long time (and sometimes still) from my childhood. If you know how to prevent it and you have the means, you should be able to exercise it.
2006-07-11 14:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by leafsfan1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to your mom and let her know how you feel. Don't get upset with her just try your best to pound it into her head. Talk to your aunts, maybe they can talk to her. Sounds like your mom needs to quit jerking you all over the place and settle her a** down.
2006-07-11 14:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Beck_Ann82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to lay it on the line for your mother that you aren't happy and pray that she listens to you.
Try explaining to her that as your mother.........she still has to consider your feelings when she makes big decisions like that.
If that doesn't work.........seek counseling.
2006-07-11 14:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have anyone professional that you can talk to...you can always call 911 and ask for help.
2006-07-11 15:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through, we should talk, (chloeg3@yahoo.ca). life sucks, I know.
2006-07-11 14:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋