This afternoon I went out with a few friends to go see "Pirates 2". Got there in decent time-good. Got tickets-good. Dude I really like is there-VERY good. Sit through at least 10 minutes of trailers with him and don't say a word-I SUCK! Why is my tounge so restricted? I've known him forever, like ten years! I'm even classified as an adult now. Every time I see him, I can't function. If I like him that much why can't I say anything?! If you can't explain, try to give me a solution.
2006-07-11 14:17:01 · 13 answers · asked by craftykid22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, since you like him so much that you can't act directly, maybe you can find a way to act indirectly. Can a friend in common bring it up with him, see what he thinks about you? The friend could either tell him for you that you like him, or act like they want to see you two together. I don't know what other advice to give you. It sounds like you want to do something about it but physically freeze up, and can't do much about that, huh? Also, all the people who said "You're not supposed to talk in a movie" must not have read the part that it was the previews.
2006-07-11 14:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by kookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down everything you feel and how these emotions affect you when he's around. express yourself on the paper as you would if you had the courage to do it in person. we all day dream about how we'd like certain scenarios to play out. use that to your advantage and give him the letter. OR don't sign, slip it to him, it and let him figure it out. add a few specific hints that will give him some sort of clue.
2006-07-11 14:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have trouble saying something, you can always do it non-verbally. Give him that look. Smile a lot. Lean against him. Snuggle up to him. Breath in his ear. Kiss him. Feel him up. It's perfectly possible for a woman to make her interest clear without having to say a word.
2006-07-11 14:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write out a long letter to him ., state you condition and your feelings, often when you write, your true feelings are reflected and in a much clearer way., if you are nervous and talk to him you might end up saying the wrong thing which you might regret later., if your love was meant to be it will happen . God bless.
2006-07-17 15:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things are wrong. First, you think that a movie is a good place to initiate conversation. Second, you have a crush on a boy you have so little in common with that you have nothing to say to him.
2006-07-11 14:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you always been shy? I have been and thats what I do all the time. If you havent always been shy then you must really like this guy. Spend more time with him and you'll get over it.
2006-07-11 14:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by faery1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess just sound like a idiot and talk to him
a faint heart never won a fair maiden (or in your case man)
2006-07-11 14:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you are nervios and maybe scared that you might say the wrong thing to him.
2006-07-11 14:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It better that you sound crazy, then nothing at all...... at least you could make him laugh. He might like Crazy..lol
2006-07-11 14:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by AgentQT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go balls up and tell him how you feel and how he makes you feel.
2006-07-11 14:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋