iam am well was a A+student i have my own apartment iam authletic i love my family but my mom doesn't seen that she LOVES me she acts diffrent around me than my sis iam always the bad one i have to do her work what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-11 14:15:40 · 16 answers · asked by queen_benitez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You call yourself Queen. That should give you a hint
2006-07-11 14:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are old enough to be one your own I would say let it go. Why compare yourself to your sister? Do you love your mom? How do you treat HER? Really look at that and if you truly are a good daughter than let it go..don't beat yourself up about it. It could be you are just a little jealous of how she may treat your sister and she REALLY LOVES YOU BOTH THE SAME...mom's are different with all their children but may love them all the same amout. Try talking to her nicely....like say " I wish we were closer?" DONT say "You don't love me etc." okay. ...Good luck....Life is hard but just remember everything is about learning....Remember to show love to your children (if and when you have them ...if you don't already) and the people around you.
2006-07-11 21:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her how you feel
she may not realize she is treating you this way
It maybe she feels you are smart enough and independent enough to be able to handle more responsiblity and your sister is not
and then sometimes it is hard for parents to let there children go and instead of saying that they express themselves in a negitive way
Just telling her how you feel maybe all that you need
I am sure your mother loves you very much and is very proud of you
2006-07-11 21:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it get to you.
I know she loves you and for whatever reason....she doesn't need to prove it to you. Maybe the "extra attention" that she is giving your sis is b/c your mom sees that she needs it..you sound like a strong girl w/ your head on your shoulders.
2006-07-11 21:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that I understand your question....if you saying that ur mom loves your sister better than you...?? They I Will say that I know how you feel....I'm the middle child and my mothers favorite is my younger sister...she gets anything that she wants and I get nothing, and get blamed for everything! Good Luck!^_^
2006-07-11 21:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should confront your mom.
have a clear answer from her.
take her by the arm.make her sit down and say
'now listen,i dont like this....'
and then if it continues point out every single thing that made you uncomfortable everytime it happens.
'mom,this is going too far..'
and so on.
2006-07-11 21:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Musician 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea. like the 1st peson said, move out. You shouldnt have to put up with that.
2006-07-11 21:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away for a while let them come to u , and tell them u have your own work to do
2006-07-11 21:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a place of your own were you only have the people you want there
2006-07-11 21:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by nikki22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know how you feel if that doesnt help any give it some time.
2006-07-11 21:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Teeley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋