my friend is not happy in the relationship she's end but she won't break up with him and everytime something goes wrong i gotta heard about it.
2006-07-11 14:11:49 · 17 answers · asked by Baby Gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mostly because they are insecure with themselves to continue to be with someone that really doesnt like or love them.
2006-07-11 14:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by yadedyah_dc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think people stay in relationship because they have a low selfesteem that allow them to be fearful which leave them to believe that the person they have now is the best one they will ever have throughout there live. They also think that is the best life they can have; as a result they dont deserve any better, or maybe again "fear",fear of starting over. I think u as her friend should talk to her, let her know that u care about her, u want the best for her, the relationship she is in is not the best one for her, and she deserve better. Be the friend who not only listen but reaches out to her friend. good luck
2006-07-11 14:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by nclsmpsn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For women, it's a fear of not finding something better. For the most part, they don't want to be lonely. Something went well at one point or they wouldn't be there to begin with, and those are the memories that they hold on to. They also think they can change men, even though this has been proven false over and over. They're afraid of change most of the time basically. It really sucks, cause a lot of better guys are out there waiting for them to cut the strings.
2006-07-11 14:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Derrrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 21:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just get stuck in the routine. People are afraid of change. Tell her change can be a good thing, and she will be happy if she makes a change- dump that fool who can't make her happy.
Tell her is she is so unhappy but won't do anything about it, you don't want to hear it anymore.
2006-07-11 14:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediate consequences of a break up are very painfull, that's why people stay in miserable relationships. Resoning that time would heal this wound won't help...
2006-07-11 14:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kaytee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u like/love the person soo much that u would rather be unhappy and still with them than not be with them at all
this is what happened to me
we broke up 2 months ago but we starting going out again and its been wonderful
in fact we will have been going out for a month in 2 days
hope this helped!!!
2006-07-11 14:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by becky_693 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is easier to stay in something you are comfortable with rather than starting a new relationship.
If you are a real friend you will listen to her, and maybe with time you can make her see that she needs to move on.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
2006-07-11 14:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too used to the routine (familiarity)
Afraid of being alone
The pain and hassle of going through a break up and getting your life back together
2006-07-11 14:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People stay in lousy relationships for the same reason they stay at a lousy job -- fear.
They're afraid to let go because they don't know what would happen if they did.
2006-07-11 14:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because it's in our nature (females) we are more towards the emotional side of feeling. we try to make the relationship work, and when it doesn't...we don't want to let go because we are not strong enough...we do not want to feel lonely, we want a companion etc. i am sure ur friend has feelings for her guy because she loves him and is willing to tolerate all the things he's made her upset... and she's not ready to let go. it'll shatter her heart. u'll need to be supportive because it's not easy...
2006-07-11 14:20:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋