I met a man while living in Mexico whom I really like. The problem is that we only had a week together because I had to return to the U.S., although we agreed that we are going to stay in contact with each other over the distance, which we have been. I don't have sex after a week, no matter how strong the bond may feel at that time. Before I left to return to the states, he used the classic line of "If we don't do it now, who knows when we will see each other again." and "Someday we will look back and wonder why we didn't do this sooner..." Of course I didn't fall for these...but my question is...are these just typical guy lines or is this guy a jerk? He didn't make me do anything I didn't want to do...he just said those things.
2006-07-11 13:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are learning a lot about life. It doesn't MATTER whether he was using a typical line or if he was a jerk.
You like him.....you are corresponding. You will learn more about his intentions as you spend the next months and years typing and talking with him.
Maybe you can go without ANY sex until you meet the perfect man. Maybe the next boyfriend will be a jerk, also. You can never really predict what you will end up with until you find a true bond of trust.
Then.....no matter what you or he says you'll have a deep understanding that will do all of the translating for you.
Good luck...if you ever feel badly about this man.......don't continue the relationship !!!!
2006-07-12 16:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I don't know if he's a jerk, but definitely lame. He was just looking for some no-strings sex, which, yeah, does make him a jerk I guess. Not all guys are like that though to answer your question.
2006-07-11 21:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Derrrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he was a jerk, but he knew that the only thing he could get in this situation was a quick fling so he went for it.
2006-07-11 21:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. You're lucky you didn't fall for those tired old lines! Smart girl.
2006-07-11 21:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that all men ask those and you knew he would try, he would be weird if he didnt try. I say he is just a man and he still talks to you so he felt something for you. I give you good props for not giving in to temptation, i know that is hard and you did the right thing.. good gurl and good luck with your man!!!!
2006-07-11 21:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by tweedle dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may just be a typical guy but I would let the relationship go if you arn't going to see him then whats the fun of it? If you can't go anyware or do anything togather I would let it go. Hope I helped!!!!
2006-07-11 21:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is a jerk and just a man every man try to tell you that so he can hit it and than leave and thats what gets me about mens
2006-07-11 21:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by eb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just a jerk. not all guys are like that. maybe you should stop contacting him.
2006-07-11 21:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what men say to us--we have to remain true to ourselves. don't you know that men can be men and jerks at the same time?
2006-07-11 21:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by charlie818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a jerk
2006-07-11 21:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by silent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋