ok people i developed a crush on a guy from work pretty much from day one. He was just so sophistocated, interesting, good lookin but almost double my age.
The problem started when i was in with just him we got on so well and i caught him staring, he would sometimes slip in that he liked me, though i was good looking and seemed genuinly intersted in my life and he would ask my advice on his problems.He singled me out alot but then i got a boyfriend and when he found out he seemed to suggest that he wasnt good enough.
Then i split up with my boyfriend and he got a girlfriend. He now shares his girlfriend problems with me , ie/what should i get her for her birthday. Last week he told me he was moving in with her and i burst into tears, i havent returned to work since , too humiliated.I still like him, its so stupid i know i cant have him....
2006-07-11 13:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-11 13:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, im really sorry that this happened.
People are gonna say, move on, get over him, and trust me, its hard, but don't loose money over it. Maybe work would be a good idea, it gives you something to get into and to get him off your mind. It works trust me. I mean its not nice sitting at home wondering "should I have done this?' or "what if." Get out there girly, I know you can do it =]
2006-07-11 14:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by mamamia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probabaly just waitin for u to make a move. some guys are just like that, even though he has a girl, it might just be a cover. but if u dont think so, there are many fishes in the ocean, get ur self a juicy one. and please for the love of God, GO BACK TO WORK!!!!
i dont see why u cant go back to work. its not like you told him how u felt and and he turned u down, he doesnt even know u like him that much. so forget him and move on, or ask him. either way, just get up and go back to work.
2006-07-11 14:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by jiomylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not been very nice to you from the start. he realised you had a crush and has used it for entertainment. his telling you about his gf is so inappropriate and i think you should look for another job if you can. you could stay if you can get yourself together and rise above all this. have a look at why you need his attention and/or approval. what is it you need in life to feel ok and why?
2006-07-11 20:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually imagine you ought to own up! You killed his canines! you do not even recognize if this 'Mr Mcpherson' likes you decrease back besides. Why were you going into his locker room besides? And once you're saying ' i grabbed it and placed it in the bin' are you speaking about the canines or the crucifix?
2016-10-14 09:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens, just move on and find someone who truly cares for u, don't play games, just be honest about how u feel and well, this just wasn't the guy for u, don't let him know ur down, sometimes, guys thrive from that because they know they got to u, but not all guys so don't take me wrong either.....just gather urself, go back to work and slowly move on
2006-07-11 13:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're going to lose a job over a crush? Who will get me my fries? Nice work ethic.
2006-07-11 13:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is go find yourself another man and it wasnt right of him to judge your past relationship. if i were you i wouldnt get her a gift unless you all are good friends. but if you are good friends i would try to get her a nice gift.
2006-07-11 13:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat more peanut butter and get a new job. Hurry, hurry!
2006-07-11 13:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emigrate. I've got troubles of my own.
2006-07-11 13:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so said maybe people can give advice
2006-07-11 13:54:06 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋