2006-07-11 13:45:56 · 43 answers · asked by NICK C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I'm looking at the words and they seem to be in English and I'm pretty sure I understand what each one of them means but I can't understand what they mean when you put them together like that.
Let's see if it helps to type it out......
If girls really want to sleep with us on a first date - should we give in?.....
Nope. I didn't understand any of that.
2006-07-14 10:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Frog Five 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, fair enough all the arguments about living in an era of sexual freedom - although really that itself is nonsense - we do however still live in a world where girls are made to feel inferior, if a girl wants this on a first date, for that matter if a boy wants this on a first date.
It could very well suggest some emotional problems that you really don't want to add to by giving in to something that could actually be harmful no matter how much they claim to want it.
They can wait and you can wait at least until a point where you know more about each other and have enough trust to be able to have sex without any negative effects that potential unknown emotional problems may cause.
I'm all for casual sex if it is safe and between two consenting adults who respect each other, but if you are dating someone it is just that – dating, there is no rush.
2006-07-11 13:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kasha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suppose your age is the most important factor and also whether you are ready for fatherhood. Im not saying that you are gonna have kids straight away but unforseen things happen. The possibility of children and whether you are in the right frame of mind to deal with such a thing is the ONLY concern. Basically having sex comes with responsibility!!
Although...
If you are an adult forget all this marriage and god nonsense, having sex has two tiers, one is emotional and the other is physical. If you are not looking to get married and neither is she out goes the emotion and all you are left with is the raw lust. I dont see why more like minded people just don't get it on freely and openly. Just as we enjoy going to the movies or bowling or whatever you enjoy doing, sex between people should be just as open and free. Its just a penis entering a vagina FFS, ENJOY PPL !!! but be carefull use condoms at all times unless you REALLY know who your screwing.
2006-07-11 16:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Yianni1066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't let her drink. If she drinks then she can say it was rape the next morning, and use a condom... it is much less likely that you raped a women, who has no drugs or alcohol in her system, if you put a condom on... that would give them the time to get out. Just look out for yourself.... too many guys have gone down because a girl felt bad the next day. Obviously as a female I want every rapist prosecuted and convicted but when there are a bunch of fake cases it makes it hard to determine which ones are real. That is the biggest danger of sex on the first night....
2006-07-11 13:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by 20mommy05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well given serious thought if I was a guy I wont want to sleep with any girl that was ready to jump into bed with me on a first date. That means she does it all the time and sleeping with someone she dont really know is not a problem for her. She probably carries the condoms in her handbag. Just beware you could pick up something really nasty.
2006-07-11 13:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't answer that for you, since 1) I'm female and 2) that is your own choice. I don't know many girls that are going to want to sleep with you on the first date. Actually, I personally don't know any. I personally, don't think you should be sleeping with anyone until you've dedicated your entire life to them.
2006-07-11 13:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... either the girl will form an immediate attachment and then YOU'LL get the short end of the stick if you don't feel the same, OR she'll feel guilty and your relationship will be doomed from the start... resulting in a break up two months down the road.
Unless it's a whore you're paying for... in which case you don't want to know my opinion.
2006-07-11 13:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by fragglerockqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure this is a religious question. But. If you are seriously concerned with doing what is acceptable according to the Bible and to God, then look in the Bible for your answers rather than in Yahoo Answers. Go to the back of most Bibles where there is a concordance and look up verses on abstinence, sex, love, etc. It will give you better answers than Yahoo for seriously.
2006-07-11 13:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong. Don't indulge her, or yourself. Sleeping together before your married is wrong, and sleeping together on a first date practically ensures a one-night stand.
2006-07-11 13:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by craftykid22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, men can be whores too! Is that what you want, to diminish the act of lovemaking by meaningless sex? Because when Miss Right comes along, you'll have to pay the piper.
2006-07-11 13:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by starmoishe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋