2006-07-11 13:45:46 · 23 answers · asked by lovely leslie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in all honesty, if you are asking this question here, the answer is no.
if you really wanted to get married to this guy and move to illinoise you would not be asking us, you would have said yes.
The real question should be, "Are you ready?" I think you are not and looking for a way out. Be honest with yourself and with him and come clean. You will feel much better.
2006-07-11 13:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Twinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in a such a hurry to get married? You've got plenty of time to do that. Take the opportunity to be independent, figure out who you are and REALLY live. 'Cause once you're married your life is no longer your own - that 's not a bad thing when two people love one another and really work as a couple but don't skip the single-and-loving-it experience! Besides, you'll find that the woman you are at 22 and the woman you are at 27 are two completely different people. The situation you're willing to take on at 22 may be one you regret at 27 due to changes in yourself that come with age and experience. And don't worry, there's plenty of great guys out there to marry - don't feel like you'll lose out if you pass up this "chance." Good Luck!
2006-07-11 14:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I live in Illinois.. I have my whole life. It's great.. but storms are bad sometimes. Cold Cold Winters.. Very Hot And Humid Summers.. I love it. I always will. It's flatland you can see for miles and miles. But enough about the wonderful state of Illinois. If you truely love him you will be willing to move and start a new life in a new place with him. This is your choice. But think if you decide not to move you might loose the man the love. Think long and hard girl.. make the right choice.
2006-07-11 13:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does no longer make any experience in any respect. Why ought to he flow in with her and her mum and dad? the militia has a BEQ regularly referred to as Bachelors enlisted quarters the position singles stay for loose. infantrymen ought to no longer be smoking pot, he will maximum in all probability get busted because the militia does random drug try and he receives kicked out. if his command reveals out he's relationship a 17 12 months previous even as he's 27 he can get into problem besides. It does sound like this guy is lieing, if he's not than it appears like he receives kicked out the the military quickly for being careless. Plus you're saying hes 27? appears like he must have a automobile.
2016-10-14 09:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with this guy? Sounds to me like the answer is no. Wait til you're older to get married. Live your life and have some fun. Plus...you're in Jacksonville...FL? If so, I wouldn't be moving. It's cold in IL.
2006-07-11 13:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you want to move or not, do you have family that you are close to? Look at all the little things before packing up and moving, if you love him and he is right for you then do it but if you have any doubts what so ever then the answer would be no, he will totally understand if he is a good guy, good luck to you and may you be safe where ever you end up!
2006-07-11 13:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 a little too young 4 me, what r u worried about exactly? Getting married or moving?
2006-07-11 13:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by scorpion prince89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date a lot more, and see if it's not just weither the illusion of being married, or great sex which is the lure. If wither of those is the case, you need to be in the dating scene a really much longer period of time.
2006-07-11 13:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN illinois sucks. i would rather live in jacksonville. if he loves you that much tell him you want to stay and get married there
2006-07-11 13:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by ultihorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's up to you but remember that if you marry him then it's til death. The only way out is death or adultery. If you cheat then you divorce then no more sex for you. you have to be without sex for life or be eternally damned. If you remarry then that person has committed adultery with you. If he cheats then this happens to him. If you are the innocent party then you can re marry and start over take him back so he will not be damned. There's alot to go by but its the truth. I'm sure i left something out but go back and read for yourself. And no i don't think I'm all holy. Everything i say to other people, i have to learn to live by myself. I'm learning.
2006-07-11 14:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Toya K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋