I love to entice guys and get them all excited with the way I flirt, look..etc.. BUT I make sure that the guy knows about my choice of abstinence! Is this wrong?? I am really good at getting them all hyped up whether in person or on the phone. What do you think??
2006-07-11 13:45:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only tease my boyfriends though!!
2006-07-11 13:53:08 · update #1
ABSTINENCE is not just about intercourse. How will you find a decent man to love marry and 'give' yourself to if you are too busy getting all hot and '''''? ABSTINENCE is about respecting your BODY and your REPUTATION for that matter.....you can't go half way with it. Think about it...and may God keep you safe.
2006-07-11 14:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
William b-Kudos. Couldn't have said it better myself.LUVVV- it's great that you are abstinent, but flirting to just have a good laugh or whatever the reason might come back and might you in the asss, as some guys don't get the "just messin' with ya'" part and will try to take advantage of you, and you'll cry rape, but if you think about it, you caused it upon yourself, b/c you gave him more of an idea. It's these types of actions that make headlines and make the males look like preys, when in reality it's vice versa, b/c there's some ***** crying foul, when it WAS/IS her fault. Don't be surprised if this happens, it's only inevitable.
2006-07-11 13:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to be abstinant, yes, it is wrong.
The man I'm currently... "Special friends" with... I'll tease him to the point where his heart will explode, but I always give in (That's the best kind of tease. Showing them what they can't have, and then giving it to them).
But if you're not going to put out anything.... It's an awful thing to do. Men don't like to be teased and hung out to dry, just like we women don't.
2006-07-11 13:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You are a rape victim waiting to happen. You need to get a grip girl before it's too late and you seriously get hurt. Especially since you're talking abstinence. Thats a sin what you're doing as it's being done with intent. Someone is going to get sick of your ways and bang you big time.............
2006-07-11 14:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jen flirting is one thing. What the questioner is saying is she enjoys getting a man rev ved up and not letting him peel out. lol There is a big difference. And I agree with some of the replies here. Not cool to do. You might encounter a man that is emotionally immature and will not know how to handle it. You know he might think : no means yes??!!!
2006-07-11 13:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Divine_Gesture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever played Russian Roulette? There are several scenes of this game in "The Deer Hunter" movie.
You are playing and you make sure everyone knows you are playing. But what if the guy changes his mind and is not playing anymore?
To play Russian Roulette you need a gun and a bullet, hopefully you will shoot blanks and your opponent will shoot himself. But there are no guaranties.
Hope you stop playing. Christopher Walken's character did it the wrong way. He died in his opponents arms
2006-07-11 13:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you do this only with guys you know well, otherwise if you come across some not-so-decent guys you could really get in trouble. And ideally flirt only with guys you are really interested in having a relationship with.
2006-07-11 13:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE VERY CAREFUL, YOU WILL SOON MEET UP WITH THAT ONE CRAZY ONE THAT MAY NOT WISH TO TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER, AND IT MAY BE FATAL FOR YOU. RAPE IS NOT A GOOD THING. SO IF I WERE YOU UNLESS YOU PLAN ON GIVING IT UP, DO NOT, STOP THAT TYPE OF STUFF MEN ARE NOT TOYS. You should NEVER TEASE. It gets old sooner or later.
2006-07-11 13:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way wrong! That's probably one of the most f-ed up things I've ever heard of someone doing!
Actually, it's kinda evil.
You should knock that stuff off!
That's like saying, "Here's the cake, but you can't have any! Na, na, na, na, na!"
If you keep that kinda stuff up, you're going to have something bad happen to you with one of these guys.
2006-07-11 13:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong to tease men if your gonna keep doing it then at least give the guy a B.J. or give him a hand job.he'll stick around longer
2006-07-11 13:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by identityhopeless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. It's mean-spirited, hurtful, and likely to get YOU hurt, too. It's girls like you who make it harder for honest, thoughtful women to get close to a guy. I'm always hearing girls whine about how guys "won't trust" them or "won't open up" to them... well, would you keep opening yourself up if every time you did you got disappointed? NO! It's like putting your fingers in a door that keeps closing: eventually you stop!
You're a hussy, plain and simple, and I hope you wise up soon.
2006-07-11 13:54:22 · answer #11 · answered by craftladyteresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋