I would call her and tell her that no children are allowed. It's her problem to find a sitter, not yours. You have enough to worry about. No offense to your sister, but that's just so rude to do....invite someone who wasn't invited. People who want to bring their children do not realize how bored kids get at "adult" functions.
2006-07-11 13:28:26
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answered by First Lady 7
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i'd both say no longer some thing on the invites or as stated Adults only Reception. To be person-pleasant right here in Scotland toddlers of cousins i do not imagine may receive invitation except it became a particular cousin who say became also your ideal chum so observed her/his toddlers in many circumstances. probably exceptions yet this may be the overall public. My daughter too is getting married July and it stands out as the cousins/companions. it ought to also all remember what type of reception it became and the persons funds. in many circumstances right here cousins are not from now on always even invited to the significant meal yet to the nighttime reception/buffet. There should be as many as 40 human beings+from both aspects with cousins and companions. Our drawing close wedding ceremony is in a motel, large motel yet can be a miles better extravagant a venue and taking in to issues, arrival nibbles significant, meal, beverages kit, nighttime buffet it's going to be £sixty 5 - £70 in step with head. You do pick to attraction to the line someplace. i don't understand absolutely everyone who may be offended at cousin's toddlers no longer being invited yet back likely differs from usa to usa. visitors are invited commonly properly, properly in improve so have a great number of time to rearrange sitters for toddlers. no matter if it isn't plausible they're going to easily ought to deliver a be apologetic about. you could't have added pressures if someone says they could't get a sitter, let their toddlers bypass and it may purely reason illfeeling with the others. may those similar human beings no longer detect a sitter if it became an frightening journey they had to attend? reading by potential of your solutions right here imagine majority agree including your suggestions. also must have stated before that once you've little nieces and nephews you're on the point of they could little question be there. A weddding is a kin occassion yet even as does the toddlers of cousins be close kin? a lot of human beings hardly understand their cousin's toddlers.
2016-12-01 02:28:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Your sister is not allowed to invite people to your wedding, only you or your fiance can do that. Your sister should be dealing with this problem not you. It is not your responsibility to hire or pay for a sitter. Also, my friend got married at a historic house and she wasn't allowed to have children there, you might want to check with the venue. Have your sister call your nephew and explain to him that the venue doesn't allow children and his girlfriend's daughter can't attend. She should fix this not you.
2006-07-11 15:30:34
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answered by maigen_obx 7
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This is what happens when people fail to assert control of their guest list! Not yelling at you dear, just disappointed at the way guests seem to feel free to bring guests of their own. I assume that your sister/matron of honor has already refuse to UNinvite the child? If so, you will have to call your nephew's girlfriend and do so. Explain that you have already refused to invite other children of that age, and if you make an exception for her child, it will create a lot of ill-will with these other parents. The way you blame your sister without being rude is by apologizing for her well intentioned mistake.
2006-07-11 15:25:35
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answered by kill_yr_television 7
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Hire a third person to look after the child while attending the wedding. This could be your niece or nephew. Make sure they get a dinner and all with that responsiblity as well.
2006-07-11 13:26:47
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answered by snorkelman_37 5
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Tell her to uninvite the child. Hopefully she will do it tactfully. If she wont and you are willing to let the child come, remember that the kid is 10..not 5 and does not need too much entertaining. I dont know many 10 year olds that dont know how to behave at an event like that.
2006-07-12 04:28:18
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answered by KathyS 7
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you could hire a sitting service or you could ask your sister to recind the invitation to not include the ten year old, this is your wedding and if no other children are attending then neither should this one..maybe you could supply movie tickets or a gift card to the local mall as a payoff so no feeling get hurt.
2006-07-11 13:38:47
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answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3
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we had only a few kid at my wedding and my mom had bought a frisbee, a beach ball, some coloring books and crayons and things along those lines for the kids to play with. they were very content to play among themselves outside and several people were outside talking amongst themselves and keeping an eye on them.
2006-07-11 15:19:52
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answered by beckyg_98 3
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Most wedding website carry a kid pack. It has crayons and things to color and other things to during the wedding. If you don't want a babysitter.
2006-07-11 14:07:35
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answered by darren b 3
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Hire a babysitter. Park the kid. The End.
2006-07-11 13:27:05
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answered by silvercomet 6
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