follow your heart
2006-07-11 13:16:12
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answer #1
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answered by h_wallbanga 4
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Look, do what makes you happy. Real love from real families, would be happy FOR you if your happy. A RACE IS NOTHING!!!!!! The color of ones skin should NEVER get in the way of ones happiness. This is what society wants you to do. Dont get sucked into that. Be with that girl! If your families still have problems with it, then realize that they ARE the problem. You must be the only one in the family with an open mind and heart. Good for you!
good luck and best wishes! :)
2006-07-11 13:19:41
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answer #2
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answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4
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If you love each other that is all that matters. Forget what the families say. This is your happiness not theirs. Live your life and don't let anyone ruin it for you. If you truly love each other then get back together. I am Latina and my boyfriend is British. We are madly in love with each other. If my family wouldn't accept him that's too bad. He is the love of my life and I will never let him go. He feels the same way about me. Good luck!
2006-07-11 13:18:49
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answer #3
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answered by curious_boricua_soul 5
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My family was the same way. I'm in love w/ a guy from a different race. His family is fine w/ it. My family realized they were going to totally lose me out of their lives if they didn't at least try to accept him. They're working on it. If you told your family, would they totally disown you? Or just be very upset and then maybe months, even years, later learn to accept it? You could be teaching your family an amazing life lesson.
2006-07-11 13:17:08
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answer #4
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answered by sbear_85 1
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don't fall the race trick; Ur parents lived in a different time when it wasn't acceptable guess what, u get to choose to be happy now.
U shouldn't let no one keep u from happiness this maybe your soul mate, I say take it from ex. Love her until u 2 decide it's not
right and the kids will be beautiful if u 2 have any. Good Luck.
2006-07-11 13:20:56
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answered by Roe 2
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Family is important, but if you guys do love each other, then that's what matters. In the end you'll create your own family when you marry, and I'm sure you wouldn't want to be wondering every night about what life would've been, would've etc. Go for it, fam. is just one of those obstacles you have to get over, plus does it really matter in the long run what/who they think is right for you? It's not there life; it's yours.
2006-07-11 13:18:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Suppose you are married as a couple. You don't see your own families much then. No guilt. No worry. Nothing to worry about then.
No reason to split, because finding true love in this world is a gift and you won't find another one ever again because finding the right person in the first place is one of life's greatest challenge.
2006-07-11 13:16:56
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answer #7
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answered by snorkelman_37 5
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Explain the situation to your families. Also, keep in mind that part of your relationship is likely based on being "forbidden" to see somebody from a different race. Also, keep in mind the your family will always be there, but your partner may not be. Sit down and explain your feelings to them, but also listen to their view point as well - do dismiss it simply for being narrow minded.
2006-07-11 13:19:22
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answered by The Killer Tomato 3
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That Shouldnt Matter What Race You Are. As Long As You Love Each Other.
2006-07-11 13:16:27
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answer #9
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answered by mks 7-15-02 6
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If you are in love with someone else and you are not happy being separated from them..well i would go with the person i love even though i hate my family opposing but what can you do? you can't live life pleasing others..if your unhappy and love her i would go with her...
2006-07-11 13:17:27
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answered by Anonymous
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People like you are helping to stamp out racism.
With any luck in 10 generations we will have all inter-bred so much that we silly humans will have to think of some thing else to hate each other over.
Go get that great girl. She is human and so are you and nuturing each other is all that is important.
2006-07-11 13:20:44
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answer #11
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answered by harPOON capt uss TANG 2
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