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compassion, sense of humor, looks (hey, I'm honest), maturity, sense of adventure

2006-07-11 13:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by wanderklutz 5 · 0 1

The Top Five Things I look for most in a guy are:
(Not in a specific order)

~He has to be smart/intellegent. He has to be smart because picture dating someone that is so dumb that it is exactlly like talking to a paper cup. Can you say boring?
~It is nice when he is funny. I love a good laugh, and if you can make me crack a smile--I'm yours. But he has to have the same intrests too. Because if there is nothing to do but aruge; the "relationship" would not last more than three hours.
~Dosen't hit on me when we first meet. I hate it when guys are touching me, or trying to pull my pants off. If ANY guy trys anything---you are going to have a mouth full of $hit. If I want to do something, I will let you know---Don't try anything that I don't want to do.
~I also look for sentitivty. A guy that has a nice side is fablous. It is great if the guy plays football, hockey, etc.; but he has to treat you like a lady. Since if you are a girl, you need to be treated like one, and not like just a baseball teammate. In plus if the guy is too manly, you know that he will beat you, cuss and scream at you.
~The final thing I look in a guy is if he is worth my time. I want someone that will listen to me, and know that I am a person; not just a booty call.

2006-07-11 13:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1.Sense of humor...if he doesn't have one-I'll just assume he's boring...or rude...or can't take a joke.
2. Trustworthiness...I know a lot of guys are very shady, to say the least, but I think every girl will agree with me...you have to gain our trust right from the get go and never lose it...
3. Great eyes and/or smile....the eyes say it all, and the smile I fall in love with.
4. Fun...if you aren't a fun person-well there's just no chance
and last but not least...
5. Brave...if someone is threatening your girl guys...you need to stand up for her-if you don't then you are just a sissy...

2006-07-11 13:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0 0

1. personality (nice and helpful)
2.Family(nice and no fighting going on so much)
3smile
4.paitents
5.look

Well, personality because the most important is when a girl got upset and the guy can cheer her up instead of sitting there doing nothing.

Family, bacause a girl won't be in a family that alway fight with eachother, that's will be bad for the girl or lady.

Paintents is important cause you don't want a guy to hurry and be roug.

Smile, you can't talk to a girl when you look at some one else, and you can't not smile really angrily..and bad..
Look, cause I don't really care about look, but it's still kind of important, but not really.

2006-07-11 13:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0 0

1. Decency
2. Sensitivity
3. Personality
4. In Shape -- Not Overweight
5. Looks

2006-07-11 13:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by x 2 · 0 0

1. Confidence, a guy must be self confident.
2. Cute face
3. Good sense of humor, a guy that can make me laugh is half way to the panties!
4.Nice to other people, there's nothing worse than a guy that is always starting fights, and can't be taken out in public.
5. Reliable, a guy that does what he says he's going to, it's nice to know you can depend on him.

2006-07-11 13:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by miss_nursie_nurse 4 · 0 0

1)Looks - b/c regardless of what anyone says, physically attraction happens first. Although that is not to say that you won't fall madly in love with someone physically unattractive (which is better b/c then you built a relationship from friendship first).
2) A communicator - they either have to "wow" you with their sense of humor so that you don't mind being quiet (b/c we women LOVE to talk) or they have to be a great listener (so we women can have the floor and talk).
3) Leadership skills - Women like to act like they're in control (hence the reason we nag), but we really do not want to be in control b/c we want someone who will take care of us, not make us their mama.
4) Financially stable - Because we don't want to be the ones keeping it all together and because we like to be able to spend our money on ourselves (like shoe shopping) and on our children (playing dress up, getting them in the right schools, and giving them whatever their hearts desire), while the man takes care of the important (though usually unacknowledged) important stuff like bills (by the way, I just want to say thanks for hot running water and electricity).
5) Spirituality - It really should be number one, but women usually throw caution to the wind just like men when they see a hottie. But once the excitement starts to wan, it will become a MAJOR issue. So, you best be knowing scripture going into a relationship.

The bottom line is this... men are conquerors. Women are NESTORS. We want the man to build the home, but then get out of the way so we can "run" it. It doesn't mean that we have to be in charge of every aspect, but we want to be heard. It does great in a relationship, by the way, when the man says "yes dear" to what we want. Then spend your time trying to help us think it was OUR idea to follow your lead.

"Honey... I thought you wanted beige in the room instead of lavender b/c you said the color would be more soothing - help relieve stress, and help keep you looking hot." Which is why my husband won THAT argument and didn't end up in a "girlie" room.

2006-07-11 13:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by fragglerockqueen 5 · 0 0

1. Have his life right with God!
2. Have a good personality.
3. Intelligent!
4. Not over weight/looks good!
5. Loves me for me!

2006-07-11 13:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Teri 3 · 0 0

eyes--do they look at me when talking with me and not at others

butt--small, cute

personality--how does he treat me and others. Does he yell at others? Does he talk down to anyone or talk bad about them? Do he treat me well? If he has kids, does he treat them well? How does he treat animals, and do they like him?

sense of humor--a must have for me. Can he make me laugh? Can he joke around most of the time, but yet know how and when to be serious?

money handling--does he handle his money well or does he spend all of it before he gets it?

There are others, but those are the TOP 5. And my finace has all of these and more!!

2006-07-11 13:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by honey 6 · 0 0

1. Relationship with Jesus Christ
2. Hard worker
3. Good manners
4. Takes Risks
5. Loves Adventure

2006-07-11 13:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by ms. hardcore 2 · 0 0

1. Sense of Humor - it is important to me if he can make me laugh
2. Responsible - I need someone with a mature status to be able to enjoy life without complications.
3. Respectful - I would like my guy to treat others as he would like to be treated.
4. Understanding - I'm a female & I know that I'm not always right, so maybe he doesn't mind to say "yes I know babe your right" even when I'm not.
5. Outgoing - I like to be outside during good weather, couch potato fine (only during rainy days)

2006-07-11 13:17:06 · answer #11 · answered by Reckless 4 · 0 0

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