Ive been seeing this guy for about 4 months and hes nice and we have fun but there are certain things about him I really dont like. He has a problem with gay people and that really pisses me off. He makes fun of my stomach. He says that its good cause its flat but that its too soft. He says that he doesnt like my hair down, that I should wear it up more. He makes fun of the way I talk and when I get upset he tells me not to be so sensitive. It would be funny if he did it sometimes but not everytime we talk. He thinks his opionin is not an opinion but fact.Hes 6 years older and he always makes comments that Im not really a 'grown woman' yet. I do so much for him but when I dont want to do one thing he's like 'wow, you dont do anything for me. I would think you want do something that makes me happy.'
Writing this has made me realize that hes not as great as I thought. LoL
Opinions, thoughts....anyone.
2006-07-11 13:07:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u never wanna be anyone's fixer-upper. Let him go you need someone who thinks that your perfect for who you are
2006-07-11 13:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by h_wallbanga 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Base on what you wrote. This guy is not Worth your time and effort and is only there to suck you dry like a vampire emotionally. If some one likes you the way you cared about him, he would not make fun of you and see you as a unique person.
It is best to talk things over with him and see if he will change. You are not his servant to do chores for him and for him to treat you like that. If he don't want to change call it a day. move on from there.
2006-07-11 13:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are not married and if you don't like him for these reasons, you should leave. You could be sensitive, or he jokes around too much, or he likes to put people down to make himself feel better. Either way, you are saying that you are not compatible with him and that means you should cut it off. DON'T do what most people do, and stay with him until you find someone else(cheat on him--it's still hurtful to dump someone for someone else also--it's still cheating him).
2006-07-11 13:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a jerk. He wouldnt hurt your feelings like that if he really cared. I would dump him. All the things that upset you now are just going to drive you more nuts if you stick around and put up with it, cause he probably isnt going to get much better.
2006-07-11 13:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by vix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you realize that he's not as great as you had previously thought. I have found that people with such high opinions of themselves and such low opinions of others are very difficult to live with.
My feeling about dating and love is... you should be with someone who makes you want to be a better person, who makes you feel smart (but you want to be smarter), someone who makes you feel beautiful inside and out. Never stay with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself.
2006-07-11 13:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by luckygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to manipulate you into being someone and something you are not, a relationship never works out to be good when one is treating the other the way you have described.
2006-07-11 13:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already answered your question.
If his opinion is worth more than your self-respect, then by all means, stay together.
But you and I both know that you deserve somebody that appreciates you, for being you, and not blindly following his demands.
Good luck on finding a better, more respectful BF! :-)
2006-07-11 13:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's way too self-centered. Even if you kept seeing him, it probably wouldn't go anywhere.
2006-07-11 13:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he does not deserve you
2006-07-11 13:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋