how could i pull this one off? my gf has had cramps which are excruciating to her, as well as back aches and a little "break through bleeding" i was afraid it could have been an ectopic pregnancy for a while but im not so sure anymore. What could this be? The prob is, is that both of our parents can't find out about it because we'd both be in major trouble. I know thereare services at places like planned parenthood for this type of thing but would they also determine if she is ok in the rest of her body? and not just concerning her vagina?
2006-07-11 12:42:33 · 14 answers · asked by Jordan 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
She should see a doctor ASAP. If it's an ectopic pregnancy, she can, and probably will, die. If you aren't mature enough to talk to your parents about it (both of you), then you shouldn't be having sex. She could also simply call her doctor and ask if they are allowed to release her information to her parents without her permission. If they say yes, and she doesn't want to deal with the repercussions, then she should go to planned parenthood with cash in hand.
2006-07-11 12:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite a conundrum... You are obviously too young to have sex but are attempting to take care of your responsibilities. You're girlfriend is in pain but you cant tell your parents. Heres the rub, if you are too young to tell your parents about a possible miscarriage then you are too young to have sex.
Now for the advice -
1. You and your girlfriend can go to Planned Parenthood and get some help.
2. You can at least tell her Mother so she can get some support from her, her or your Mother, it doesnt really matter at this point. This may get too big for you and you may need assistance.
3. Never ever ever do this again. Condoms are handed out for free.
Good Luck kid
2006-07-11 13:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a bit young to be having sex if you are afraid to tell your parents even though your gf is having medical problems. The best thing for her to do would be to talk to her parents and get some quality medical care. She could be pregnant, she might have miscarried, she could have an infection - there could be quite a few things that might be wrong and she needs to see a doctor asap.
You can go to planned parenthood and see what they can do, they are doctors so they should be able to treat her symptoms to the best of their ability.
2006-07-11 12:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there hang in there just like everyone else is telling you go to planned parenthood if it is a msicarrige u got to get it taken care of now or major trouble can occur later on in her life a friend of mine went through it and know she is regreating in not going to the doctor they said she probally wont never be able to have kids again and then come to find out she did hae a ectopic pregnancy but go to planned parenthood have her email me and I can talk more to her aboaut more things jodi_elsberry_2005@hotmail.com and have her send me an email with her age etc.. and I will try my best to help her out and the state she lives in please I would love to help her out if I can I know exactly what she is going through my sister also went through it and it is hard to deal with but please have her send me an email and talk to me thank you and god bless you and good luck on what u decide to do
2006-07-11 13:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 21:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Planned Parenthood is a great resource but in some states there may be parental notification laws for certain procedures.
Check www.plannedparenthood.org for more info.
2006-07-11 12:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by TMCAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your GF has Medicaid she can make a regular appointment at her doctors office and they probably wont say anything. But if you dont have insurance or a regular doctor, there are many teen clinics out there or clinics that see people without parental consent.
But she needs to get medical attention ASAP!
2006-07-11 12:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by bintaljersi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...go tell your parents - you're dealing with someone life here...and possibly another one if she's pregnant.
Forget the "I'll-get-in-major-trouble-if-my-parents-find-out". This is serious sweetie. If she is having an etopic pregnancy...she could ruin her chances in ever having another child.
Do what is best...and I know you know this is serious. She needs medical help now.
You need to sit down and be frank with your parents.
Good Luck and God Bless you.
2006-07-11 12:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're worried about being in trouble when her health is in jeopardy? did you know an ectopic pregnancy can kill you if not treated? obviously you must be too young to be having sex if you are afraid of getting busted . . . if you are old enough to do it, then you are old enough to face the consequences of your action! Go to the hospital now!
2006-07-11 12:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advise yall to go to planned parenting or a local clinic health office ect call around and ask about it but you did not mention her age and with the age and depending where your at it may be illegal for a dr to examine her call around to make sure but if it comes down to it you may have to tell her parents trouble or not you want her to be safe email me squirrellchica@yahoo.com with her age and your state and i can let you know if yall can get help and maybe find a place for you i hope shes ok
2006-07-11 12:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by squirrellchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋